19M and my friend is aswell, we want to go to Lisbon but just want to double check that it’s got good nightlife and there’s a beach nearby before we book.
We’re not into history just want to be have some fun but not like Napa or Ibiza.
19M and had this issue for years, I constantly wish for things that I can do, for example I wish I wasn’t balding and had a high hairline at 19, wish I wasn’t actually competent at football and wish I was someone with at least ok fine motor skills.
These are all things that I won’t have because of genetics and the fact I have dyspraxia and Asperger’s.
I also don’t see myself as attractive and it’s all things I can’t change such as yellow teeth and other stuff.
How do I learn to just accept it and be happy as I don’t see how someone can date me when I’m like this.
19M and always felt like the boring guy who had nothing going on. I want to start to be more interesting though. I play football and go the gym and listen to music but that’s where my interests end. I guess I also like cars, I’d be down to like try paddle and maybe some sort of street dance. Idk tho, I just feel talentless and useless because I have a lot of evidence to prove that.
19M and seem to NEVER make friends at work and my manager hates me after a month 😭😭.
Idk why but he’s the closest to my age and is the biggest cunt. Idk why he’s only like this to me like he never engages in conversation, isn’t interested in helping me and then gets pissy when I mess something up which he hasn’t taught me because he knows that he’s actually at fault for not showing me how to do something.
Tbf everyone else there I have had no issues with. I just haven’t become friendly with any of them. I want to learn stuff and become helpful but how am I supposed to when I get taught nothing?
This is just because I made a lot of mistakes but I have learnt from them and I’m definitely not as incompetent.
He’s also checking cctv to see who left boxes somewhere and ik I’m gunna get blamed for it but I was helping someone else who was struggling to find something.
I’m physically bad at everything I try, I have no clue why. It’s literally to the point where I struggle to open a CAGE and push something around without knocking shit over.
I stutter, seem to be invisible to people and I can’t even play sports well which is what I like. I’ve only ever been on 2 dates last year which was definitely progress but this year I’ve been on ZERO.
I’m also 5”6 which isn’t a problem but I am also balding so don’t have much hair.
I’m really trying to be more positive but genuinely this is how I feel as it’s not being negative it’s just true.
My big thing is that I have lit no helpful skills or basic competence and the fact I’m still a virgin when I’m pushing 20.
I’d really appreciate your guys advice to overcome this.
19M and started a new job and how do I get to know people? I want to practice before uni as I’m currently rlly shy and have low confidence. I’ve never had the balls to stick to making a change.
I have met people from uni but again it feels like I’m just constantly chasing people and like today for example I was given a few simple responsibilities but even struggled with that.
I have felt like this for years, it feels like I had to beg for people to hangout with me. That’s even with other ND’s so idk what to do.
I use to not be as aware and got rlly lucky with friends but now I’m an embarrassing virgin who rlly struggles socially, has no skills or discipline and is just an embarrassment.
I do want to become better but I never actually put in the effort to consistently.
Is there a way I can make more REAL friends who text me, ask me to do fun stuff and I don’t feel like it’s one sided.
19M and I enjoy sports but I just can’t seem to be able to actually physically do them due to dyspraxia and how slow I am.
I’d love to know if there is ways I can improve coordination as I’m going to a sports business uni so want to at least build some confidence.
19M and never rlly had it, starting to realise how much I rely on other to talk cus idk what to talk about.
I don’t want to say this because this causes the confidence issues but I’m physically incompetent at everything and everything I do is awkward. I just never seem to learn simple things.
19M and haven’t been able to make friends at work, I have no hobbies and I don’t have an interesting life.
There’s something about me that’s different and it pisses me off because I have never been able to find someone who actually likes me apart from a rllly small amount of people who are on the spectrum.
19M and time has flown by, I am aware how bad I am socially and physically but the thing is i rlly want to improve but idk how to or keep up the effort and push through the anxiety.