u/Appropriate_Yam1861

I don't know what I need to do. I think I was in peak of my life where I need to build my career at age 24 and I got diagnosed. Now I feel my life and Carrer is over. I am from south Asia and I always wanted to go abroad for my masters but amidst of all uncertainties I don't think it is possible now. I really don't know what I need to do. Which career should I look into. I was brilliant student but now I am depressed lonely . Everyone seems to get their life to a stage where they are happy but I am left alone .

Has anyone particularly from south Asia has gone to foreign in student visa ? And guys please help me what should I do as t1d we don't have enough of time. Please help me

Guys what's the mentality to have with t1d. Should we have sadsack mentality or mentality that we can thrive with this disease?

I see influencers making things like we will be dropping dead anytime soon I guess part of that he also true but they way they show it is quite exaggerated I guess . What's yours take on that?

After countless therapies I was finally starting to feel better trying to live somewhat normal life . Then I went to a party where they knew that I had t1d and they said that I should not get married because I have t1d and it's like cheating the girl whom I am going to get married. This thing has hurt me so bad . Shouldn't we get married on moral ground because of what we suffer and the threats this disease possess down the line like 15-20 years later ?

Thanks you so much guys. You all have been like a family and a wonderful community. Now I know that I have problems within my friends circle and they also lack awareness regarding this conditions. ❤️Once again thank you all.

Been 5 Months since I was diagnosed. And I think I have enough of being sadist. Tomorrow I have planned to go out with my friends. I will probably have a beer or two . Should I bolus for the beers ? No cgm and pumps ? I am on pens and mdi my i:c is 1:20-25. Should I go with vodka or beer ? I used to drink once in 2-3 month but haven't had one since my diagnosis. So I will like to get some help from you guys.

So I posted my story in this sub few weeks ago. Seeing the reasoning of people I just wanted to ask can cheating me justified ?

Basically, my ex cheated on me after 5 years of relationship while I was in hospital few days of ICU and in total 8 days of hospital stay. Then a life changing diagnosis as well. I think in that situation koi Pani manxey aafulai motivated rakhna sakdina .And tyo Bela she said ki I was sad and couldn't make her feel happy. I now realized how a man can make his partner happy while he himself is suffering. Isn't that the time when she should be supporting me more than ever?

She confessed me that she cheated on me both physically and emotionally. I don't know what I needed to say back then . Tara she said this all happened because of me I don't know what I could have done differently. Tara she blamed me I don't know how I could have given by 100 percent while suffering. I gave my 100 percent in those five years. Never made her felt unloved, never made her felt like I was giving less than she deserved. I know mero Pani Galti hola as nobody is perfect but cheat garyerw blame garnu isn't justifiable?!!! Is it?

Sorry for my post but I don't think I can carry myself further. Diagnosed only 5 months ago everything is heavy for me. I have taken therapies, medications done numbers of sessions with my psychiatrist but I don't think I really can

I feel isolated nobody wants to include me in any events now a days . For 20 years I have been friends with my boys but now suddenly I feel isolated , they take it like it's nothing. I have been cheated as well. I am burden to my family. I wanna just end this . I have tired as well but my mom saved me but I can't take this at all.

What did I do to deserve this all. I have always done good for everyone never had an evil thought for anyone . Gave 100 percent to everyone and everything wether it's be friendship or relationship.

But when it's my turn to get support system around me every one has made me feel isolated. I really can't take this at all. Even with good care this thing can't be controlled but I don't have any will to live . People distance themselves from me I don't know what I did . I did nothing wrong to cause this disease it wasn't my fault. I really can't take all of this.