u/Appropriate_Yam1861

Hello everyone. This is my first time posting here and I really don't know if this is the right sub to do this.

Australia was my life long dream and I got my student visa as well. But now I am facing a dilemma. I had researched about this before coming here but I don't know what I should do. I am now enrolled in MBA at SCU. My migration agent told me that MBA won't lead me anywhere so I need to change my course to nursing. I think that is too risky in 2026. Should I go for that ? I am scared as hell. The transfers will be within the same uni but I am from non technical background. Won't visa hopping cause any problems for my visa ? Please help me out . I am so scared

I have posted here few times and sorry if you guys feel irritated but I literally have no one right now to share this so I hope I am welcomed.

My treatment is going well but last 2-3 days ma I had 3 panic attack and the words keep on hitting me and hit me so hard that I remember all my traumas all at once.

I have been handed a lot by life but I never complained and I never will. But I lost my Baba at 19 ani yo sab was very all of a sudden like a day earlier we were having dinner together and the next day I saw my dad in ventilator. I get flashbacks of that and I can't sleep sometimes. Ani tyo Bela everything fell apart kinaki my mom dad used to run a business and me and my sister were doing our bachelors. Tyo Bela we had no pressure we both had dreams . Tara after my father's death everything changed we sold our business , paid half of loan and kept half money to support our studies. Mom couldn't stay alone so we brought her with us here in kathamadu.

Then during my second sem I fell in love with a girl. Everything was fine going good I felt relieved because I had got a shoulder to lean on a person with whom I could be open . Tyo Bela I never showed my emotional vulnerability I guess for almost 2 yrs kinaki I thought I will be seen as a weak guy. I also didn't shed a tear after my dad's death because my mom was unconscious I felt I need to be strong enough to look after my mom and sister.

Then for 2 years everything was going okay then mero family mah financial problems aauna thalyo cause saved money won't last forever then I started to teach as well. Job grana mildaina thiyo kinaki I had day collage. So for last 1.5 years of my bachelors I earned my fees by myself paid my sister's fee with the saved ones. Tara yo sab Huda ni I never made my girlfriend felt that she was missing out on anything. My mom and sister treated her like our own . I gave my whole commitment, loyalty, time and whatever I could for her. Tara then came a time where she said that she is missing the spark we had at the beginning but we communicated solved that issues as I knew ki relationships aren't linear.

In those 4 years of my relationship I never made her feel sorry. Once she had a fight with her family I went to her place only to comfort her tara tyo din she said that she misses her ex and she talked with him . Maile tyo bela NI I didn't say anything. She used to compare me with her sister's husband who had ancestoral property here in kathamadu but I didn't. Tara my dad had me enough for me back home . Compare gareni I didn't say anything but I used to be hurt. I never planned to go abroad but for her I changed my plans . I got 3.92 in my bachelors , also I had a job offer on my table during my 8th SEM in which I also worked. Also I scored 8 on my ielts while managing my jobs and other documentation. I didn't wanted to put financial pressure so I choose South Korea for my masters where I got 100 percent scholarship as well.

Now the final part I never said for any physical intimacy with her because she wasn't ready and I didn't want to be selfish. 6 months ago I got life changing diagnosis and the time when I needed her most she cheated on my physically. I forgive her no worries but the things that she said hurts me . She said that I was never loveable, her sisters are proud of her for leaving me and that I was a looser and she also said " Tero bhagay xaina ". She has gone to Australia now but she had given me a life long trauma. I did a lot during those phases where people crumble and give up . I didn't. She cheated put blame on me said i Wasn't mentally available when I needed her tha most . So wanted to ask was there anything that I could have done to love her more ? Am I looser ? Should I give up ? Please help me understand and help me to gain trust upon myself once again .

I have fought for 5 years now. Five years of struggle , love and betrayal. Got a diagnosis for life long and now I am at the end stage of depression and I can't take it anymore from now on.

She fucking cheated on my death bed , said I was the reason for all of this tagged me as toxic when all I did was love her. I lost my dad too. I couldn't pursue what I wanted because I got a diagnosis at peak of my career. I have no friends right now, nobody listens maybe ending my life is the only way out. I am tired battling, taking pshycitarist appointments I am tired all of this . I gave 5 years of my life to a girl who cheated when I needed her the most. Hope nobody has to suffer they way I had.

Thanks for listening to my rant and being such a wonderful community. But a person can win a battle not the whole war.

I am planning to pursue my master's degree now as my diagnosis hit me when I was planning to do it abroad but had to change my plans . Today I had the realisation because of this condition I will never bee able to reach my potential. My colleagues have reached their dream unis abroad but I am stucked here. I gave my everything in my studies but I now have to manage my BS rather than my Carrer. Maybe I am stucked for a long haul.

After 5 months since my diagnosis, countless therapies, fear mongering of compliancations, getting cheated after my diagnosis, friends distancing themselves and being told that i should never get married. I have now come to the point fuck this shit, I am gonna do what I want to do , the dreams that I always had the passion that I always had for the things I loved . Giving love being a good person ( as well as now managing this disease). Hope it will not hold me back .

Thanks for listening though. And do you think t1d has to hold us back?

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this . I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes 5 months ago at age 25. I know now it will cut my life by 10-12 years . But i wanted to ask about Lp(a) and apob.

My lipid tests only after 15 days of my DKA was.

LDL: 71.6 mg/dL

Total: 134 mg/dL

HDL: 58 mg/dL

Triglycerides: 87 mg/dL, and A1C now is 5.2

I have health anxiety and seeing the articles with lpa and apob terrifies me. My endo says to check lpa apob after 1-2 years . Will that be fine ? Or should I check early?

I don't drink, smoke or eat anything Processed. Any advice will be highly appreciated.

TIA.

How often do you guys think about the long term possible compliancations of t1d?

So I am diagnosed with an auto immune condition ( type 1 diabetes) and it is well controlled. Does the civil service act prohibits me to be a government officer ? I have the dream of becoming section officer in mofa. Please help me out guys my life is literally over. I take care of my condition and I am physically able to carry out any taks as long as I take my insulin. Does anyone have any insights on this topic?

I don't know what I need to do. I think I was in peak of my life where I need to build my career at age 24 and I got diagnosed. Now I feel my life and Carrer is over. I am from south Asia and I always wanted to go abroad for my masters but amidst of all uncertainties I don't think it is possible now. I really don't know what I need to do. Which career should I look into. I was brilliant student but now I am depressed lonely . Everyone seems to get their life to a stage where they are happy but I am left alone .

Has anyone particularly from south Asia has gone to foreign in student visa ? And guys please help me what should I do as t1d we don't have enough of time. Please help me

Guys what's the mentality to have with t1d. Should we have sadsack mentality or mentality that we can thrive with this disease?

I see influencers making things like we will be dropping dead anytime soon I guess part of that he also true but they way they show it is quite exaggerated I guess . What's yours take on that?

After countless therapies I was finally starting to feel better trying to live somewhat normal life . Then I went to a party where they knew that I had t1d and they said that I should not get married because I have t1d and it's like cheating the girl whom I am going to get married. This thing has hurt me so bad . Shouldn't we get married on moral ground because of what we suffer and the threats this disease possess down the line like 15-20 years later ?

Thanks you so much guys. You all have been like a family and a wonderful community. Now I know that I have problems within my friends circle and they also lack awareness regarding this conditions. ❤️Once again thank you all.

Been 5 Months since I was diagnosed. And I think I have enough of being sadist. Tomorrow I have planned to go out with my friends. I will probably have a beer or two . Should I bolus for the beers ? No cgm and pumps ? I am on pens and mdi my i:c is 1:20-25. Should I go with vodka or beer ? I used to drink once in 2-3 month but haven't had one since my diagnosis. So I will like to get some help from you guys.

So I posted my story in this sub few weeks ago. Seeing the reasoning of people I just wanted to ask can cheating me justified ?

Basically, my ex cheated on me after 5 years of relationship while I was in hospital few days of ICU and in total 8 days of hospital stay. Then a life changing diagnosis as well. I think in that situation koi Pani manxey aafulai motivated rakhna sakdina .And tyo Bela she said ki I was sad and couldn't make her feel happy. I now realized how a man can make his partner happy while he himself is suffering. Isn't that the time when she should be supporting me more than ever?

She confessed me that she cheated on me both physically and emotionally. I don't know what I needed to say back then . Tara she said this all happened because of me I don't know what I could have done differently. Tara she blamed me I don't know how I could have given by 100 percent while suffering. I gave my 100 percent in those five years. Never made her felt unloved, never made her felt like I was giving less than she deserved. I know mero Pani Galti hola as nobody is perfect but cheat garyerw blame garnu isn't justifiable?!!! Is it?

Sorry for my post but I don't think I can carry myself further. Diagnosed only 5 months ago everything is heavy for me. I have taken therapies, medications done numbers of sessions with my psychiatrist but I don't think I really can

I feel isolated nobody wants to include me in any events now a days . For 20 years I have been friends with my boys but now suddenly I feel isolated , they take it like it's nothing. I have been cheated as well. I am burden to my family. I wanna just end this . I have tired as well but my mom saved me but I can't take this at all.

What did I do to deserve this all. I have always done good for everyone never had an evil thought for anyone . Gave 100 percent to everyone and everything wether it's be friendship or relationship.

But when it's my turn to get support system around me every one has made me feel isolated. I really can't take this at all. Even with good care this thing can't be controlled but I don't have any will to live . People distance themselves from me I don't know what I did . I did nothing wrong to cause this disease it wasn't my fault. I really can't take all of this.