u/Aquariangoddess666

Am I ruled by Jupiter since I’m a Sagittarius rising or am I ruled by Pluto since Pluto is conjunct my ascendant?

I’ve gotten both answers but personally always felt more ruled by Pluto.

(I’m blue, he’s orange)
There’s so many Pluto aspects:

My Pluto squares his Venus at 1.5 degrees,
His Pluto conjuncts my Venus at 2.3 degrees,
His Pluto squares my Moon at 3 degrees.

Also would like some insight on my Neptune square his Ascendant at 0 degrees.
Has anyone experienced that aspect before?
What was the dynamic like?

He’s so intense, and it’s literally hard to breathe around each other, so obviously I’m very intrigued. But would an actual relationship be too turbulent?

I’m seeing him again in a couple of days, and I have a feeling he’s planning to move things forward between us.
Based on these aspects, what would your advice be?
Who do you think is likely to feel the obsession more?

(I’m blue, he’s orange)

Is it the synastry or his own natal chart… tbf the synastry doesn’t seem that crazy to me.

My Mars conjuncting his Pluto isn’t at that tight of an orb (3 degrees), and I have that in almost every relationship I’ve been in since most people close in age to me usually have their Pluto conjuncting my Mars.

The only thing I can think of that points to his clingy / obsessive behavior is his Neptune squaring my Venus at 0 degrees and my South Node conjuncting his Ascendant at 0 degrees.

My Sun does sextile his Pluto at 0 degrees but I never considered sextiles to be very intense.

Or would you say he’s just like this in relationships due to his heavy Scorpio placements and his 8th house Cancer Moon?

Does anyone have any insight or experiences with Neptune-Venus or Nodal-Ascendant aspects as well?

I’m worried he’s just very much idealizing me because of the tight Neptune square Venus aspect.

Im referring to the level of success I desire from my modeling career?
The lovers card constantly shows up when I ask this question, and I’m still struggling to interpret it.