u/Artistic-Question963

I'm posting here because I want to understand the perspective of a masc woman better.

I’m 22 and I’ve always identified as straight and dated submissive men. But recently, I met a woman who changed everything. I now realize I’m bi (or pan).

​The woman I’m seeing is a "masc" lesbian. She looks very masculine and she is dominant. The thing is, I’m also dominant :( and I look feminine. Usually, I’m the one in charge in my relationships.

​When we went on our first date, the chemistry was crazy. We even laughed about how we are both dominant. She was flirting with her eyes in a way I’ve never seen before. She was very respectful and said she loved my energy.

​Things got confusing for a bit and we stopped talking, but recently she’s been texting me a lot. She’s asking me out, liking my selfies, and even asked me to go with her to get gym gear. I’m moving away next year, so I want to confess my feelings to her on our next date.

​I have two main worries:

​The "Dominant" Clash: Since we are both dominant, can this actually work? Is it possible for us to have a good relationship?

​The Bedroom: I’m confused about the physical part. Since I’m used to being the dominant one with men, I don’t know what to expect with a dominant woman. "I'm not used to compromise: What does a dominant lesbian usually expect or do?

​I really like her and she gives me butterflies I’ve never felt before. I don't want to stop this if it could work, but I’m scared our personalities are too similar.

​Has anyone been in a "Dom vs Dom" queer relationship? Any advice on how to handle the physical side or the confession?

I’m 22 and I’ve always identified as straight and dated submissive men. But recently, I met a woman who changed everything. I now realize I’m bi (or pan).

​The woman I’m seeing is a "masc" lesbian. She looks very masculine and she is dominant. The thing is, I’m also dominant :( and I look feminine. Usually, I’m the one in charge in my relationships.

​When we went on our first date, the chemistry was crazy. We even laughed about how we are both dominant. She was flirting with her eyes in a way I’ve never seen before. She was very respectful and said she loved my energy.

​Things got confusing for a bit and we stopped talking, but recently she’s been texting me a lot. She’s asking me out, liking my selfies, and even asked me to go with her to get gym gear. I’m moving away next year, so I want to confess my feelings to her on our next date.

​I have two main worries:

​The "Dominant" Clash: Since we are both dominant, can this actually work? Is it possible for us to have a good relationship?

​The Bedroom: I’m confused about the physical part. Since I’m used to being the dominant one with men, I don’t know what to expect with a dominant woman. "I'm not used to compromise: What does a dominant lesbian usually expect or do?

​I really like her and she gives me butterflies I’ve never felt before. I don't want to stop this if it could work, but I’m scared our personalities are too similar.

​Has anyone been in a "Dom vs Dom" queer relationship? Any advice on how to handle the physical side or the confession?

I’m 22 and I’ve always identified as straight and dated submissive men. But recently, I met a woman who changed everything. I now realize I’m bi (or pan).

​The woman I’m seeing is a "masc" lesbian. She looks very masculine and she is dominant. The thing is, I’m also dominant :( and I look feminine. Usually, I’m the one in charge in my relationships.

​When we went on our first date, the chemistry was crazy. We even laughed about how we are both dominant. She was flirting with her eyes in a way I’ve never seen before. She was very respectful and said she loved my energy.

​Things got confusing for a bit and we stopped talking, but recently she’s been texting me a lot. She’s asking me out, liking my selfies, and even asked me to go with her to get gym gear. I’m moving away next year, so I want to confess my feelings to her on our next date.

​I have two main worries:

​The "Dominant" Clash: Since we are both dominant, can this actually work? Is it possible for us to have a good relationship?

​The Bedroom: I’m confused about the physical part. Since I’m used to being the dominant one with men, I don’t know what to expect with a dominant woman. "I'm not used to compromise: What does a dominant lesbian usually expect or do?

​I really like her and she gives me butterflies I’ve never felt before. I don't want to stop this if it could work, but I’m scared our personalities are too similar.

​Has anyone been in a "Dom vs Dom" queer relationship? Any advice on how to handle the physical side or the confession?