Dating apps suck
Downloaded a couple of dating apps recently to make an attempt to go on a few dates, meet someone, all that jazz. Awful mistake. Matched with a grand total of 6 guys in 3 months. 4 instantly unmatched and were just spam swipers, 1 superliked me and was a guy who bullied me in highschool- he said he thought it would be funny to do that when I tried to have a conversation, and the last guy I was having great conversations with for two days, and then he started asking for weird kink things and when I said no blocked me on everything.
I know I'm an unattractive woman. But my standards are pretty low, and my pictures make me look about a 5/10. My standards for men are literally: has any hobbies on their profile, takes decent care of themselves (ie hair is brushed- not talking about weight etc) and is looking for something more than a hookup. That's it. Got my friends and their boyfriends to review my profile, and they all don't understand why I'm not having any success.
I'm in my 20s- what the HELL is wrong with me that I can't get a single guy without ulterior motives to go on a date with me/even have a conversation with me. Even in highschool, I was the butt of every man's joke. I just want to be loved. I want a man to take an interest in me as a person like I take an interest in them beyond the platonic friendships I have with my gay male friends and my friend's boyfriends. I try my damned hardest, and for what?!