Wedding
I attended a wedding yesterday and was so exhausted , I will have my own wedding next year and I cannot imagine going through all of that.. how did you do your wedding?
Context:
My parents and extended family are used to and love big weddings with lots of people and traditions etc. and I don’t want to let them down (mainly my parents) since I an an only child and a lesbian none the less, but I cannot imagine having all of those people and things at my wedding. I know I cannot do elopement bc that would break their heart but I also know they will be sad if we have only wedding lunch and that’s it.. did anyone deal with a sense of letting others down? I don’t know what to do, I know its MY wedding and I can do it however I want but at the same time its their day too…