u/Available-Witness973

So I’m (22f) a senior in college move in is August 19th 9am and my 2015 Buick encore told me this Friday I needed an oil change I didn’t have enough money at the time so I continued doing favor to make the additional money for college dorm room decor and my oil change I finally make enough and I find a good coupon on Groupon for 49.99$ full synthetic oil change ,tire rotation , filter change at Midas. I thought it was a good deal so ofc I call, the man tells me he’s gonna price match me don’t buy the Groupon okay cool!! I arrive at 9am the following day the guy whose doing my oil change isn’t there I wait an hour and 8 minutes exact for him to arrive at 10:08 they take my keys and by 10:44 am me and this gentleman in the waiting room hear a loud “BOOM” immediately we both stand up he’s peaking out the window and so am I ! The man at the desk walks out comes back inside and says to me there’s something really wrong with your car! I say “WHAT” I walk out with him to find my car has fallen off the rack ! It’s a total loss and I move into college tomorrow I’m not old enough to get a loaner so how do I go about this I’m so upset and hurt I even started my job today my very first shift on the clock since last march!!! And I can’t make it .

So I’m in an emotionally abusive relationships and things have started to really blow up since july 4th. my birthday was July 2nd and I was invited to New Orleans by my partner keep in mind his sisters were joining us. I thought nothing of the trip till we arrived in New Orleans and I started getting treated differently and excluded I called my mom allot and it wasn’t until we got truly drunk that things hit the fan we’re walking bourbon street everybody’s drunk and I stop for a preacher my drunk mind though the sign “ how can ye escape the damnation of hell” was talking about Kanye my favorite artist so of course I stopped to have a conversation with him and the whole group his sister her boyfriend and my partner all stopped and gave me death glares I ended the convo quickly to keep walking with the group we ended up getting another drink very tall and long I don’t remember the name after that drink me and my partner started to argue I called my mom AGAIN! To which she told me to find the hotel because I was feeling unsafe I walked away and tried finding safety to only be followed and chastised by my partner calling me a bitch dirty a hoe , dumb etc me being drunk I tried to hold the anger in and just find the hotel until he said “ you want acting like this when you were sucking my di** with your mom on the phone “ mind you my moms still on the line it enraged me so bad because I didn’t even want to do that to begin with but he pressured me like every other time being drunk I blacked out turned around and punched him in the face he started walking away I followed him and kept hitting him in the face cuz no way you just embarrassed me like that to my own mother!! His sisters caught up wit us to which the one that’s very judgmental and rude said “ if you hit my brother again I’m going to beat your A**” my partner told her”go ahead “ to which I turned around and swung on her the other sister jumped in and they jumped me because I was winning the fight against sister A. now mind you my birthday just passed I had my nails lashes wig and makeup professionally done to only be left with 4 nails the rest ripped off blood everywhere a black eye and cuts all over my body and no wig my partner didn’t try to stop the fight only encouraged it after that I got help from a lady called my father and he drove from Texas to New Orleans to get me I pressed charges on his sisters only to get back with him days later and that’s when we had a run in with the police he held me hostage threatened to shoot me took my phone and wouldn’t give it back until I screamed for help I was then allowed to call the police but I was so ashamed and scared he’ll retaliate when he gets out that I lied to police about the hostage situation and now we’re here TODAY! I was promised we would go out last night and do something fun like the arcade my car had a bad coolant leak and I had no money to get it fixed but my partner paid for it to be fixed right!! So today I’m getting ready doing my hair and lashes and he comes in the restroom and says “what are you doing today” “you” was very confusing because i thought we were going out I was wrong he told me he wanted to go to a barbecue with his friends and mind you whenever his friends come over he makes me hide in the room so they can’t see me I’m not a bad looking girl whatsoever i weigh 145 5’4 but he makes it seem like I’m so chubby and fat that no one can see me I don’t even have rolls! Or excessive fat but I just listen to not make him mad but when he told me about the barbecue I was pissed nonetheless because hey you’re using my car even though you got it fixed it’s MINE we argued for awhile about how he made promises and didn’t follow though i let him go to the barbecue around 2pm and he didn’t come back until 6:30 and the first thing he said was “ don’t ever leave my dog locked in the fucking room “ no hello how have you been just don’t leave the dog locked in the room the door was never locked the dog has food aggression and begs allot so when I ordered my food and ate I left the dog in the room so then he follows it up with ight let’s go to the arcade at that point I no longer wanted to go i say I’m going home he says “ if you leave we’re done” I still decided to leave only for him to tell me to come back but I only came back because I’m tired of the abuse! And i want revenge !! I’ve decided to cut his clothes up little by little throughout the day when I go to the restroom throw his weed in the toilet when he goes to sleep and sneak out ! I also took a little money for my troubles I’m tired or being called a bird bitch dumb getting yelled at having my own car taken from me etc etc am I wrong for doing this??