u/AwarePhilosopher9645

Always wondered about her and her husband

Matched with a guy on Muzz about a year ago. We’ve talked on and off ever since and would occasionally go out. We were never exclusive, but I did develop a bit of an attachment to him.
For the last few months we haven’t really seen each other, although we’ve stayed in touch and live in the same city. During that time I noticed his Snapchat score constantly going up, along with a significant increase in his Instagram and Facebook friends. I had a feeling he was actively meeting women through dating apps.

Recently, a woman messaged me on Instagram and told me she had met him, that he led her on, slept with her, and then things went nowhere. I later found out he’s also on Hinge and dating non-Muslim women as well.

Out of curiosity, I texted him from a fake number pretending to be a girl he removed from his ig; he didn’t remember me and admitted he doesn’t forget women he sleeps with.

I know he didn’t owe me anything, but I still feel disappointed. I often pray to Allah to protect me from what isn’t good for me, and part of me sees this as that protection.

Still, I’m human and processing the feelings. Would you take this as a clear sign to move on, or am I overthinking it?

I’ve always wondered if there’s a difference between finding someone attractive and being extremely attracted to them.
Most people have said things like “she’s pretty” or “she’s attractive,” but I’ve recently heard someone describe feeling “extremely attracted” to someone and say that just thinking about that person gave him an “energy rush.”
For the men who’ve experienced that kind of attraction before, what did it actually feel like? Was it purely physical, or was it more of an emotional or psychological pull? Did it make you think about that person more often or change the way you interacted with them?
I’m curious whether “extremely attracted” is simply a stronger way of saying someone is attractive, or if it describes an entirely different experience.

I’ve heard people describe someone as “attractive,” “good-looking,” or “beautiful,” but I’ve rarely heard someone say they’re extremely attracted to someone or that thinking about them gives them an “energy rush.”
For the men who’ve felt that way before, what did it actually feel like? Was it mostly physical attraction, emotional excitement, infatuation, or something else? Did it change how you acted toward that person?
I’m curious whether “extremely attracted” is just a stronger way of saying someone is attractive, or if it usually describes a completely different experience.