u/BIueey

Hey everyone, I’m a 26M in LA and I’ve been really struggling to find bisexual male friends. I’m not even focused on dating right now, I just want genuine friendships with guys I can relate to.

I’ve tried pretty much everything since 2019: apps, clubs, LGBTQ+ events, volunteer groups, hobby meetups… but nothing. People either disappear, keep it surface level, or it turns into something hookup focused. It’s confusing living in LA and still finding this so hard, especially when I’m specifically looking for bi men and just wanting a community and friendships? It feels damn near impossible.

Hey everyone, I’m a 26M in LA and I’ve been really struggling to find bisexual male friends. I’m not even focused on dating right now, I just want genuine friendships with guys I can relate to.

I’ve tried pretty much everything since 2019: apps, clubs, LGBTQ+ events, volunteer groups, hobby meetups… but nothing. People either disappear, keep it surface level, or it turns into something hookup focused. It’s confusing living in LA and still finding this so hard, especially when I’m specifically looking for bi men and just wanting a community and friendships? It feels damn near impossible.

I feel like I’d be most compatible with a bisexual man, but I honestly don’t know where to find one or if they’d even be interested in me.

I’m gay but still curious about women, and I feel like being with a bi guy could create a more understanding, safe space, especially if he deals with bicycle. I know not every bi guy deals with bicycle, but for those who do, I think there could be a real connection with mutual support, and love.

I guess I’m just wondering, where do you even meet bi men who are open to something serious? And would they typically be open to dating a gay man? I’ve tried all the apps for years and they all suck. Men so many people who only interested hookups when I just want a long term meaningful relationship.

I live in LA, been to clubs, lgbt spaces, lgbt hangouts/hobbyist places and more.

Hey everyone, I’ve been wondering about something.

I know bisexual men are attracted to both men and women, but I’ve noticed some seem to prefer dating other bisexual people, maybe because there’s a shared understanding.

I identify as gay, though part of me is still curious about being with a woman. That said, I’m mainly interested in men and feel comfortable labeling myself as “gay”.

Would you be open to dating a gay man? Is that a dealbreaker, or do you prefer bisexual men? Or does it not matter to you?

If you don’t care about sexuality, what do you look for in a man?

Hey everyone, I’ve been wondering about something.

I know bisexual men are attracted to both men and women, but I’ve noticed some seem to prefer dating other bisexual people, maybe because there’s a shared understanding.

I identify as gay, though part of me is still curious about being with a woman. That said, I’m mainly interested in men and feel comfortable labeling myself as “gay”.

Would you be open to dating a gay man? Is that a dealbreaker, or do you prefer bisexual men? Or does it not matter to you?

If you don’t care about sexuality, what do you look for in a man?

I’ve been focusing on myself and I feel solid in who I am and what I bring to the table. I’m still growing, but I know I want a real relationship, love, consistency, and a genuine connection.

I’m turning 27 soon and I’ve never had a boyfriend. It doesn’t make me feel less than, but it does get frustrating sometimes. I’ll meet or notice a guy I’m into, and more often than not, he’s already taken. It can feel like my timing is always just off.

I’m not trying to force anything or settle just to have a relationship, I’d rather wait for something real. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this spot, where you know your worth but it just hasn’t happened yet.

I’ve been focusing on myself and I feel solid in who I am and what I bring to the table. I’m still growing, but I know I want a real relationship, love, consistency, and a genuine connection.

I’m turning 27 soon and I’ve never had a boyfriend. It doesn’t make me feel less than, but it does get frustrating sometimes. I’ll meet or notice a guy I’m into, and more often than not, he’s already taken. It can feel like my timing is always just off.

I’m not trying to force anything or settle just to have a relationship, I’d rather wait for something real. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this spot, where you know your worth but it just hasn’t happened yet.