u/BahutDardSeeneMei

Hi, I thought about writing something very polished here, but that didn’t feel honest. So this is just me, as I am.

I’m a doctor, currently in final year of MD MEDICINE. Life is busy, sometimes unpredictable, and often tiring but it’s also meaningful in its own way. My days can get long, and there are times I’m caught up in work more than I’d like, but I don’t believe in disappearing on people. If I care about you, you’ll feel it even on my busiest days. I think, after lot of introspection, I’m just looking for something that feels… steady. Not intense or confusing. Not something where you’re constantly trying to figure out what the other person is thinking. Just something calm, where you can be yourself without overthinking, where conversations are honest, and where both people are genuinely there for each other. At the end of the day I want to have someone who makes me feel like I have someone I can rely on and share my ups and downs, that I'm not alone.

I’m someone who feels things deeply, even if I don’t always show it immediately. I tend to observe more than I react, and I value understanding over assumptions. I like clarity. I like knowing where I stand with someone, and I offer the same in return. I’m not perfect, I overthink sometimes, I get tired and want to shut the world out for a bit, and I’m still figuring parts of my life out like everyone else. But I do know that when I choose someone, I show up for them. I listen, I remember the little things, and I try to be someone they can rely on and I will tease you with small things you told me or I noticed months ago right at the perfect moment.

A normal day for me is work, maybe the gym, small errands, and then trying to slow down a bit with music or something light. On better days, I step outside and go for long drives, good food, or just spending time with people I’m comfortable with. And sometimes, the best days are the quiet ones where nothing much happens, but it still feels peaceful.

I’ve been told I have a calm presence. I don’t rush into things, and I don’t like chaos in relationships. I’d rather sit down, talk things through, and find a way forward together. For me, a relationship should feel like a safe place, not something you need a break from. I want to date with the intention of marriage, but I don’t believe in rushing into it blindly. I’d rather take the time to understand someone properly, build something real, and then move forward with clarity.

Outside of work, I enjoy simple things. I follow F1 (and yes, I do get a little too invested in it), I’ve recently started cooking more, and I like small routines that make life feel a bit more put together. Music helps me unwind, and long drives somehow make everything feel lighter. I have a habit of picking something new every once in a while and really getting into it and hence I've enjoyed animes, crime thrillers, k drama, fragrances, fashion, and there was a time i really got into table lamps 😂.

A little about how I take care of myself. I’m 170 cm, fairly fit, and I lift regularly and I have an impeccable skin care routine. I like staying active and feeling good in my body, but I’m not someone who lives on a strict diet. I enjoy food way too much for that. If there’s good food around, I’m eating it. I genuinely think food is one of life’s simplest and greatest pleasures, and I’d rather enjoy it than over optimize it.

I come from a Jain background, but I’m not particularly religious. I respect where I come from, but I don’t follow things rigidly. I’m open minded when it comes to religion, caste, and backgrounds but what matters more to me is the kind of person you are, not the label you come with.

I’m currently living near Delhi and I plan to pursue superspeciality from Delhi NCR or Chandigarh and eventually settling there but I'm open to settling wherever things make sense. I’m vegetarian, but I don’t expect you to be. I don’t smoke, and I’m okay with occasional drinking. My family matters to me, but I make my own decisions, I value their guidance which comes from experience and genuine well wishes but they do not pressure me.

I think what I’m ideally looking for is someone aged 25 to 31, preferably a doctor but doesn't have to be, who is emotionally steady, kind, and comfortable in their own skin. Someone who communicates openly, doesn’t play games, and is ready to build something meaningful. I struggle with people who aren’t clear, who need constant validation, or who are still holding on to their past. Beyond that, I’m quite easygoing.

Also, small honest detail, I’m terrible with directions and will probably get lost even when I've gone on that route multiple times (google maps is my savior) I forget names and dates more often than I’d like. I'm not perfect but I will remember how you take your coffee/tea, what little quirks and habits you have, what little things matter to you, what makes you smile, and try to understand what you’re going through, even if you don’t say it directly.

If you've come this far and you’re reading this and it feels like something you’d want too, I’d like to hear from you.

Maybe start with something simple like what’s something small that makes your day better?

PS- I didn’t write this and post it immediately. It sat with me for a few days while I went back and forth on it. Putting this out here took more courage than I expected.

This isn’t a complete reflection of who I am but just a small glimpse. There’s obviously more to me than what fits in a post. If this resonates with you, or you think someone you know might get along with me, feel free to reach out here or email- sinuslyyours@proton.me

Hi, I thought about writing something very polished here, but that didn’t feel honest. So this is just me, as I am.

I’m a doctor, currently in final year of MD MEDICINE. Life is busy, sometimes unpredictable, and often tiring but it’s also meaningful in its own way. My days can get long, and there are times I’m caught up in work more than I’d like, but I don’t believe in disappearing on people. If I care about you, you’ll feel it even on my busiest days. I think, after lot of introspection, I’m just looking for something that feels… steady. Not intense or confusing. Not something where you’re constantly trying to figure out what the other person is thinking. Just something calm, where you can be yourself without overthinking, where conversations are honest, and where both people are genuinely there for each other. At the end of the day I want to have someone who makes me feel like I have someone I can rely on and share my ups and downs, that I'm not alone.

I’m someone who feels things deeply, even if I don’t always show it immediately. I tend to observe more than I react, and I value understanding over assumptions. I like clarity. I like knowing where I stand with someone, and I offer the same in return. I’m not perfect, I overthink sometimes, I get tired and want to shut the world out for a bit, and I’m still figuring parts of my life out like everyone else. But I do know that when I choose someone, I show up for them. I listen, I remember the little things, and I try to be someone they can rely on and I will tease you with small things you told me or I noticed months ago right at the perfect moment.

A normal day for me is work, maybe the gym, small errands, and then trying to slow down a bit with music or something light. On better days, I step outside and go for long drives, good food, or just spending time with people I’m comfortable with. And sometimes, the best days are the quiet ones where nothing much happens, but it still feels peaceful.

I’ve been told I have a calm presence. I don’t rush into things, and I don’t like chaos in relationships. I’d rather sit down, talk things through, and find a way forward together. For me, a relationship should feel like a safe place, not something you need a break from. I want to date with the intention of marriage, but I don’t believe in rushing into it blindly. I’d rather take the time to understand someone properly, build something real, and then move forward with clarity.

Outside of work, I enjoy simple things. I follow F1 (and yes, I do get a little too invested in it), I’ve recently started cooking more, and I like small routines that make life feel a bit more put together. Music helps me unwind, and long drives somehow make everything feel lighter. I have a habit of picking something new every once in a while and really getting into it and hence I've enjoyed animes, crime thrillers, k drama, fragrances, fashion, and there was a time i really got into table lamps 😂.

A little about how I take care of myself. I’m 170 cm, fairly fit, and I lift regularly and I have an impeccable skin care routine. I like staying active and feeling good in my body, but I’m not someone who lives on a strict diet. I enjoy food way too much for that. If there’s good food around, I’m eating it. I genuinely think food is one of life’s simplest and greatest pleasures, and I’d rather enjoy it than over optimize it.

I come from a Jain background, but I’m not particularly religious. I respect where I come from, but I don’t follow things rigidly. I’m open minded when it comes to religion, caste, and backgrounds but what matters more to me is the kind of person you are, not the label you come with.

I’m currently living near Delhi and I plan to pursue superspeciality from Delhi NCR or Chandigarh and eventually settling there but I'm open to settling wherever things make sense. I’m vegetarian, but I don’t expect you to be. I don’t smoke, and I’m okay with occasional drinking. My family matters to me, but I make my own decisions, I value their guidance which comes from experience and genuine well wishes but they do not pressure me.

I think what I’m ideally looking for is someone aged 25 to 31, preferably a doctor but doesn't have to be, who is emotionally steady, kind, and comfortable in their own skin. Someone who communicates openly, doesn’t play games, and is ready to build something meaningful. I struggle with people who aren’t clear, who need constant validation, or who are still holding on to their past. Beyond that, I’m quite easygoing.

Also, small honest detail, I’m terrible with directions and will probably get lost even when I've gone on that route multiple times (google maps is my savior) I forget names and dates more often than I’d like. I'm not perfect but I will remember how you take your coffee/tea, what little quirks and habits you have, what little things matter to you, what makes you smile, and try to understand what you’re going through, even if you don’t say it directly.

If you've come this far and you’re reading this and it feels like something you’d want too, I’d like to hear from you.

Maybe start with something simple like what’s something small that makes your day better?

PS- I didn’t write this and post it immediately. It sat with me for a few days while I went back and forth on it. Putting this out here took more courage than I expected.

This isn’t a complete reflection of who I am but just a small glimpse. There’s obviously more to me than what fits in a post. If this resonates with you, or you think someone you know might get along with me, feel free to reach out here or email- sinuslyyours@proton.me

Hi, I thought about writing something very polished here, but that didn’t feel honest. So this is just me, as I am.

I’m a doctor, currently in final year of MD MEDICINE. Life is busy, sometimes unpredictable, and often tiring but it’s also meaningful in its own way. My days can get long, and there are times I’m caught up in work more than I’d like, but I don’t believe in disappearing on people. If I care about you, you’ll feel it even on my busiest days. I think, after lot of introspection, I’m just looking for something that feels… steady. Not intense or confusing. Not something where you’re constantly trying to figure out what the other person is thinking. Just something calm, where you can be yourself without overthinking, where conversations are honest, and where both people are genuinely there for each other. At the end of the day I want to have someone who makes me feel like I have someone I can rely on and share my ups and downs, that I'm not alone.

I’m someone who feels things deeply, even if I don’t always show it immediately. I tend to observe more than I react, and I value understanding over assumptions. I like clarity. I like knowing where I stand with someone, and I offer the same in return. I’m not perfect, I overthink sometimes, I get tired and want to shut the world out for a bit, and I’m still figuring parts of my life out like everyone else. But I do know that when I choose someone, I show up for them. I listen, I remember the little things, and I try to be someone they can rely on and I will tease you with small things you told me or I noticed months ago right at the perfect moment.

A normal day for me is work, maybe the gym, small errands, and then trying to slow down a bit with music or something light. On better days, I step outside and go for long drives, good food, or just spending time with people I’m comfortable with. And sometimes, the best days are the quiet ones where nothing much happens, but it still feels peaceful.

I’ve been told I have a calm presence. I don’t rush into things, and I don’t like chaos in relationships. I’d rather sit down, talk things through, and find a way forward together. For me, a relationship should feel like a safe place, not something you need a break from. I want to date with the intention of marriage, but I don’t believe in rushing into it blindly. I’d rather take the time to understand someone properly, build something real, and then move forward with clarity.

Outside of work, I enjoy simple things. I follow F1 (and yes, I do get a little too invested in it), I’ve recently started cooking more, and I like small routines that make life feel a bit more put together. Music helps me unwind, and long drives somehow make everything feel lighter. I have a habit of picking something new every once in a while and really getting into it and hence I've enjoyed animes, crime thrillers, k drama, fragrances, fashion, and there was a time i really got into table lamps 😂.

A little about how I take care of myself. I’m 170 cm, fairly fit, and I lift regularly and I have an impeccable skin care routine. I like staying active and feeling good in my body, but I’m not someone who lives on a strict diet. I enjoy food way too much for that. If there’s good food around, I’m eating it. I genuinely think food is one of life’s simplest and greatest pleasures, and I’d rather enjoy it than over optimize it.

I come from a Jain background, but I’m not particularly religious. I respect where I come from, but I don’t follow things rigidly. I’m open minded when it comes to religion, caste, and backgrounds but what matters more to me is the kind of person you are, not the label you come with.

I’m currently living near Delhi and I plan to pursue superspeciality from Delhi NCR or Chandigarh and eventually settling there but I'm open to settling wherever things make sense. I’m vegetarian, but I don’t expect you to be. I don’t smoke, and I’m okay with occasional drinking. My family matters to me, but I make my own decisions, I value their guidance which comes from experience and genuine well wishes but they do not pressure me.

I think what I’m ideally looking for is someone aged 25 to 31, preferably a doctor but doesn't have to be, who is emotionally steady, kind, and comfortable in their own skin. Someone who communicates openly, doesn’t play games, and is ready to build something meaningful. I struggle with people who aren’t clear, who need constant validation, or who are still holding on to their past. Beyond that, I’m quite easygoing.

Also, small honest detail, I’m terrible with directions and will probably get lost even when I've gone on that route multiple times (google maps is my savior) I forget names and dates more often than I’d like. I'm not perfect but I will remember how you take your coffee/tea, what little quirks and habits you have, what little things matter to you, what makes you smile, and try to understand what you’re going through, even if you don’t say it directly.

If you've come this far and you’re reading this and it feels like something you’d want too, I’d like to hear from you.

Maybe start with something simple like what’s something small that makes your day better?

PS- I didn’t write this and post it immediately. It sat with me for a few days while I went back and forth on it. Putting this out here took more courage than I expected.

This isn’t a complete reflection of who I am but just a small glimpse. There’s obviously more to me than what fits in a post. If this resonates with you, or you think someone you know might get along with me, feel free to reach out here or email- sinuslyyours@proton.me