u/Ballislife1313

C'est une vraie question.

Je suppose que pour en arriver au suicide, la personne en question doit être dans une situation extrêmement compliquée. J'imagine qu'une grande partie du problème est souvent financière.

Si la personne n'a pas de travail depuis des années et qu'elle n'a AUCUN sous pour se loger ou se nourrir, que va lui offrir réellement l'organisme qu'elle appellera ? Et pendant combien de temps ? Au-delà de belles paroles, qui sont sans doute très efficaces car la personne suicidaire doit aussi être épuisée émotionnellement, comment ça se passe après que la personne renonce à mettre fin à ses jours ?

I'm using this as a last resort because I've just eaten some AVB about an hour and a half ago and I'm not feeling shit, even after doubling the dose from the last time I took some.

So I'm hoping that saying the magic words will save the day.

THESE EDIBLES AIN'T SHIT.

How many times did you reaaaally want something but just convinced yourself that it's not worth it, or that it would never work but never bothered to try? I've personally done this dozens and dozens of times...

But on the few occasions where I just said "fuck it, it costs nothing to ask", I either got what I wanted or I was very politely told it wasn't possible, but a slim chance is always better than NOTHING.

Today I just had an experience like this and it reminded me of how simple it is to ask for things and that I should do this way more often.

My company hired someone to give quick massages to all the employees. You just had to register and pick a time, but the amount of slots was limited.

I wasn't working on the day this was announced so when I got back to work and saw the email all the slots were already full. I was so disgusted because I LOVE getting massages.

Today I arrived and I thought to myself "fuck it, it costs nothing to ask", so I went up to the lady and just said that I didn't register in time and I would love it if there was still a spot available or if someone cancelled.

She said that she was fully booked but the person she was supposed to be with at that time hadn't shown up, and that if they don't come I could take their spot.

After a few minutes of small talk, the person never showed up and I did get my message. She said that was the first time someone didn't show up in the 3 full days she had been doing this so far.

Obviously I got extremely lucky but I was SO glad to have made the effort to just go and ask because I would have never been in a position to be lucky if I had just stayed at my desk mourning the bad timing.

Moral of the story : don't be scared to ask for stuff. Look at it like a free lottery ticket : the chances of winning may be slim, but the ticket is free (the worst they can say is no) so it would be stupid not to scratch it.

Je m'explique : si on est au mois de décembre, il fait déjà nuit à 17h, donc c'est normal de dire bonsoir ou bonne soirée, par contre, actuellement avec des journées beaucoup plus longues et de la lumière naturelle encore jusqu'à 21h, ça fait bizarre de dire bonne soirée à ses collègues en partant du boulot à 17h, voire même 18 ou 19h alors qu'il fait encore grand jour.

Est-ce que le critère déterminant est l'heure, la lumière du jour ou autre chose ?

Evidemment que c'est du détail et qu'il n'y a pas de bonne ou mauvaise réponse.