As much as we dislike Elphaba, NO ONE should be trying to find out where they live. Not only does it make them the victim, it also makes E able to use this as a way to coat off the awareness community. Pommy Andy should not be trying to deliver some method of street justice.
Appears that E is hinting about apparent MH struggles that seemed to coincide with the pred allegations resurfacing.
Apologies for the late night post. There’s something that happened at work that’s been on my mind. On Friday, I helped fix a task that another employee made a minor mistake on. When I finished, the person who asked me to do it thanked me, and someone else suggested I double-check the work. I did, and it turned out the calculations were wrong.
I called the person and asked for the best way to do the task, but he couldn’t give me a clear answer, which was stressful because I’m not as experienced with finances as he is. I needed him to give me yes/no answers.
On the day I was stressed, my grandma passed out while visiting her brother in hospital. I’ve also been struggling to keep the house together and work my job. I cried at work because I felt like a failure and scared that I’m a letdown to my organisation. Every Monday we have a 1-1 and I am worried on how to bring it up. My manager is aware of my ADHD and how I need clear instructions, and I am scared that this is something that will be used against me.
I’m someone who does get annoyed when I am told to do a task while it is being done, or if I am told to do something and it ends up being incorrect. How should I approach this with my manager tomorrow? She wasn’t working on Friday so I want her to hear about it before the colleague mentions it. I did apologise to him for my outburst and explained what I was dealing with, and he was very understanding. But I am still worried that I will be disciplined.
I filled in all forms with my provider (and my informant did too). My referral was submitted in Nov/Dec 2025 time. Did anyone go down the same route as me, and if so are you able to provide me with some advice on how long I can expect to be waiting for an assessment.
Also, was there anything you did inbetween the waiting period which would be beneficial for me to know?
As a child I was molested by my mum’s boyfriend. She wasn’t with him for too long, but the trauma he inflicted upon me still hurts in many different ways. For years I was able to push back memories of the CSA I experienced by him, until they slowly came back during my adult years - and I realised I couldn’t push them back anymore.
I told my mum. She said I was lying because I was a “hideous” child, and told me never to report it to the police as they would dismiss it based on my appearance. I am one of the many victims of CSA that doesn’t go to the police because so little is done to protect us victims.
EOD decides to insert their 2p into the situation and say that someone is only a victim of a crime if they are convicted. The data itself shows victims of crimes relating to grooming, SA, and any other kind of abuse is under reported due to victims getting away with it.
I was watching the comments and even mentioned people like Saville never got convicted while he was alive. EOD then backtracked and conveniently ignored that their own “SA reports” didn’t go far, and their alleged perpetrators never got any time in prison for it.
EOD is part of why victims will never be trusted or believed. First, it is because they openly say that in order for someone to truly be a PDF or a groomer they would need a conviction. Second, it is because they themselves have lied about SA and accused BAME men of it.
I hope that people realise EOD is a liar, a victim blamer, and they themselves have messaged children in an inappropriate way. They admitted before to doing it, but are now saying that it never happened.
Victims please know we deserve our stories to be heard and not dismissed by idiots like Stomper.
Just get over it EOD. No one wants to be your mate in public or private.
I cannot stop laughing that the officer asked multiple times about E’s health due to the state of the bedsit.