My insights collided with most people’s general ideas

The greatest thinkers weren’t controversial for its own sake, they were controversial because they challenged what others took for granted.

I have been wondering… I joined Reddit because I have a medical condition and wanted to learn and help people on a couple of topics where I have been dealing with eg insomnia…

But I also wanted to learn other things /opinions ect… so I explored some other forums here on Reddit.. and what I have noticed is this

You have the functional users, they are looking for answers and solutions and insights for their problems/qiestions and on those forums people are very grateful for the help, very friendly but they don’t care about upvotes and high reward culture (karma), but these forums give a lot of satisfaction and that’s the reward…

Then you have the “for fun users” open forums discussion forums. Eg askreddit ect… There people say what they think, good or bad sometimes rude. They don’t care about other people, only themselve. it’s all about the upvotes in most forums… their is no gratitude no real satisfaction besides getting the most upvotes…

What is your preference? For me it is obvious?

Is Reddit Built for Thoughts or just soundbites?

Are We Discussing Ideas or Just Scrolling?

Do We Read, or Just React?

Should Thoughts Be Questions Instead of Statements?

Why Do We Downvote Different Opinions Instead of Discussing Them?

Sometimes posts get real good replies (from smart people) but most people only read the title reply and move on or downvote and move on… then I wonder how can you explain a deep thought in 5 words? Does it all need to be soundbites only…

You don’t need to agree with someone’s deep thought, but only to be open to the other parties arguments, and really think about them. You can still agree to disagree… does that make it a bad post? Does a different view deserve a downvote?? I prefer a smart reply instead…. That makes me think more deeply about the subject..

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 2 days ago

2 types of Reddit users

I have been wondering… I joined Reddit because I have a medical condition and wanted to learn and help people on a couple of topics where I have been dealing with eg insomnia…

But I also wanted to learn other things /opinions ect… so I explored some other forums here on Reddit.. and what I have noticed is this

You have the functional users, they are looking for answers and solutions and insights for their problems/qiestions and on those forums people are very grateful for the help, very friendly but they don’t care about upvotes and high reward culture (karma), but these forums give a lot of satisfaction and that’s the reward…

Then you have the “for fun users” open forums discussion forums. Eg askreddit ect… There people say what they think, good or bad sometimes rude. They don’t care about other people, only themselve. it’s all about the upvotes in most forums… their is no gratitude no real satisfaction besides getting the most upvotes…

What is your preference? For me it is obvious?

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 2 days ago

I definitely learned the hard way, shut up most of the times

I guess I am not very smart specially socially, but I do have a lot of general knowledge about many many topics.. philosophy, physics and QM, economics, politics, cosmology, AI workings, math, ect…

Everything interests me (to some degree) and I am always learning and reading new things…
Hate TikTok, ect… wast of time

And I have a very critical mind and love to make jokes, word plays and sarcasm

Bad combination 🙄

Some People think I always know better while I just join the conversation, don’t understand my jokes and hate my critical/remarks and deep thought jokes… only a few friends are on the same page… and it’s always a big laugh

So I learned to shut up… but sometimes just can’t help it and still make “sarcastic” jokes when people say something totally off topic or wrong/stupid..

One of my daughters loves it, and the other hates it… and my wife… she learned to live with it I guess 🙄, she probably doesn’t even register it… 😁

am I the alien in the room…. A Englishman in New York ???

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 3 days ago
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I definitely learn the hard way, keep your mouth shut most of the time…

Not native English sorry for some typos

I don’t want to pretend I am very smart I am not, but I do have a lot of general knowledge about many many topics.. philosophy, physics and QM, economics, politics, cosmology, AI workings, math, ect…

Everything interests me (to some degree) and I am always learning and reading new things…
Hate TikTok, ect… wast of time

And I have a very critical mind and love to make jokes, word plays and sarcasm

Bad combination 🙄

People think I always know better while I just join the conversation, don’t understand my jokes and hate my critical/remarks and deep thought jokes…

So I learned to shut up… but sometimes just can’t help it and still make “sarcastic” jokes when people say something totally off topic or wrong/stupid..

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 3 days ago

Do some observations collide with most people’s general ideas

Intro
The greatest thinkers weren’t controversial for its own sake, they were controversial because they challenged what others took for granted.

Questions
Sometimes posts get real good replies (from smart people) but most people only read the title react and move on or downvote and move on… (does it feel personal already? Read on…) then I wonder how can you explain a real thought/discussion in 5 words? Does it all need to be soundbites only…

You don’t need to agree with someone’s thought, but only to be open to the other parties arguments, and really think about them. You can still agree to disagree… does that make it a bad post? Does a different view deserve a downvote?? I prefer a smart reply instead…. That makes me think more deeply about the subject..

Is Reddit coming closer and closer to a TikTok type of app?

Is Reddit built for deep thoughts or just soundbites?

Are we discussing ideas or just scrolling?

Do we read, or just react?

Why do we downvote different opinions instead of discussing them?

I have been banned from deepthoughts forum for including these questions in my post… love to hear you opinions

I like some controversy because it feels so empty without me 🙄

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 4 days ago

Do some observations collide with most people’s general ideas?

Intro
The greatest thinkers weren’t controversial for its own sake, they were controversial because they challenged what others took for granted.

Questions
Sometimes posts get real good replies (from smart people) but most people only read the title react and move on or downvote and move on… (does it feel personal already? Read on…) then I wonder how can you explain a deep thought in 5 words? Does it all need to be soundbites only…

You don’t need to agree with someone’s deep thought, but only to be open to the other parties arguments, and really think about them. You can still agree to disagree… does that make it a bad post? Does a different view deserve a downvote?? I prefer a smart reply instead…. That makes me think more deeply about the subject..

Is Reddit coming closer and closer to a TikTok type of app?

Is Reddit built for deep thoughts or just soundbites?

Are we discussing ideas or just scrolling?

Do we read, or just react?

Why do we downvote different opinions instead of discussing them?

I have been banned from deepthoughts forum for including these questions in my post… love to hear you opinions

I like some controversy because it feels so empty without me 🙄

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 4 days ago
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Most people fear being wrong. The greatest thinkers fear stopping the search too soon. Being wrong isn’t failure, it’s part of the process of understanding

Abstract

Most people fear being wrong because they see it as a sign of failure. Great thinkers see it differently. They fear something else, stopping the search too soon. They understand that every theory, no matter how successful, is only our best current explanation of reality. Being wrong is not the opposite of understanding it is part of the process of understanding.

Paper & examples

Science has never advanced by proving itself right over and over again. It has advanced by discovering where it was wrong. Every major breakthrough has required someone to challenge an accepted idea and replace it with a better one. In science, progress is not measured by how rarely mistakes are made, but by how quickly they are recognized and corrected.

Thomas Edison: “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

One of the greatest examples is Albert Einstein. After developing the theory of General Relativity, his equations predicted that the universe should either expand or contract. At the time, almost everyone believed the universe was static, so Einstein introduced an extra term into his equations: the cosmological constant, solely to keep the universe motionless. “He later said this was my biggest mistake”

Albert Einstein is credited with “Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”

Another example comes from Isaac Newton. His laws of motion described the physical world with extraordinary accuracy and remained the foundation of physics for over two centuries. Then Einstein showed that Newton’s laws are not universally correct. At very high speeds or in extremely strong gravitational fields, relativity provides a more accurate description. Newton wasn’t “wrong” in the ordinary sense—his theory was simply incomplete. It remains extraordinarily useful for everyday engineering, from bridges to spacecraft trajectories.

In the late 1900s many physicists said, there is no point studying physics anymore, we know everything their is to know 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The same pattern appears throughout physics. Classical physics could not explain phenomena such as black-body radiation or the photoelectric effect. Those failures eventually led to the development of Quantum Mechanics, fundamentally changing our understanding of nature.

This is why great scientists do not build their identity around being right. They build it around getting closer to reality. A theory that survives every test is valuable, but a theory that fails in an unexpected way can be even more valuable because it points toward a better explanation.

Being wrong is not failure. Refusing to question yourself is. The history of science shows that every great leap in understanding began with someone willing to say, “Our current explanation isn’t the whole story.” That willingness to revise one’s beliefs not the desire to always be right is what drives humanity closer to the truth.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 6 days ago

Big thinkers need a anchor in life, so they can bring their mind to rest

I came to a new insight from a book

Abstract

Constant thinking and or overthinking things can make you restless. So thinkers need something in live to give there minds rest form time to time
can my anchor be playing the guitar again? Taking my mind off things?

Paper & examples

Every answer opens three new doors, and every discovery reveals an even bigger unknown. Knowledge is different from a puzzle; it doesn’t end when the final piece is found. Instead, every piece you add makes you realize how much larger the puzzle actually is.
The mind often mistakes understanding for security….

The universe is effectively infinite in complexity, and every field of knowledge—from physics and science to psychology ect… branches into countless new questions. The horizon keeps moving. You never reach it because every step forward lets you see farther.

I can see this everywhere. You read about black holes, and suddenly you’re studying quantum mechanics, dark matter, and the origin of space-time. You learn about nutrition, then discover hormones, genetics, gut bacteria, circadian rhythms, and environmental factors. Every answer is a doorway rather than a destination.
The danger is that the search itself becomes the goal. You no longer seek knowledge because you’re curious; you seek it because you’re hoping the next insight will finally bring peace.

An anchor is different. An anchor doesn’t remove uncertainty; it allows you to remain steady despite uncertainty. It can be a set of principles, meaningful relationships, creating something instead of endlessly consuming information. An anchor gives stability where knowledge cannot, because it is rooted in how you choose to live rather than in how much you manage to understand.

Perhaps wisdom begins where the need for complete certainty ends. Not because the search for knowledge loses its value, but because you stop expecting it to provide what only meaning, purpose, and acceptance can give: rest.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 8 days ago

We all need an anchor in life. I’m constantly searching for new insights, information, and data, and it’s making me restless. I need to find something to give my mind some rest

I came to a new insight

Every answer opens three new doors, and every discovery reveals an even bigger unknown. Knowledge is different from a puzzle; it doesn’t end when the final piece is found. Instead, every piece you add makes you realize how much larger the puzzle actually is.
The mind often mistakes understanding for security….

The universe is effectively infinite in complexity, and every field of knowledge—from physics and science to psychology ect… branches into countless new questions. The horizon keeps moving. You never reach it because every step forward lets you see farther.

I can see this everywhere. You read about black holes, and suddenly you’re studying quantum mechanics, dark matter, and the origin of space-time. You learn about nutrition, then discover hormones, genetics, gut bacteria, circadian rhythms, and environmental factors. Every answer is a doorway rather than a destination.
The danger is that the search itself becomes the goal. You no longer seek knowledge because you’re curious; you seek it because you’re hoping the next insight will finally bring peace.

An anchor is different. An anchor doesn’t remove uncertainty; it allows you to remain steady despite uncertainty. It can be a set of principles, meaningful relationships, creating something instead of endlessly consuming information. An anchor gives stability where knowledge cannot, because it is rooted in how you choose to live rather than in how much you manage to understand.

Perhaps wisdom begins where the need for complete certainty ends. Not because the search for knowledge loses its value, but because you stop expecting it to provide what only meaning, purpose, and acceptance can give: rest.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 9 days ago

sports a replacement for the human drive for dominance and war, and keeps us away (manages) our worst impulses

Open question… agree or not?

Sports may be one of humanity’s most successful inventions for managing some of our deepest evolutionary impulses. Rather than eliminating drives such as dominance, competition, tribal loyalty, and aggression, sports channel them into structured activities governed by rules. In this sense, sports are not a replacement for war itself, but a socially acceptable simulation of certain aspects of conflict.
Through sports, people can compete for status, experience victory and defeat, identify with a group, and express rivalry without the destructive consequences of actual violence. Teams often function as symbolic tribes, and sporting events can evoke emotions similar to those found in larger group conflicts, but within carefully controlled boundaries.
At the same time, sports serve purposes beyond managing aggression. They provide meaning, identity, belonging, achievement, cooperation, and entertainment. While they can reduce the need for direct physical conflict, they do not eliminate the underlying human tendencies that once contributed to warfare. Those impulses remain part of human nature and can still appear in politics, economics, ideology, and social competition.
Viewed this way, can sports be understood as one of civilization’s methods for transforming potentially destructive human drives into symbolic contests where pride, reputation, and achievement are at stake instead of territory, resources, or human lives.

The Romans understood this remarkably well. They recognized that large populations needed outlets for competition, tribal identity, excitement, and aggression. Through chariot races, gladiatorial games, athletic contests, and public spectacles, they created arenas where intense emotions could be expressed in a controlled setting.

This is a release valve for the masses

bread and circuses “panem et circenses”
This was the empire that started it to keep people happy and rioting to a minimum, but not 0. And it worked… they fed them with free grain and gave them entertainment…. (No hunger and no bored people) so why shouldn’t it work now? But their were riots in the Roman empire too, but this was the solution… and I think we just have a modern version of it now

Some games lasted for months in a row, everyday

One could argue that modern sports are a more civilized evolution of the same principle. The arena remains, the crowds remain, the tribal loyalties remain, and the desire for victory remains but the swords have largely been replaced by rules, referees, and scoreboards.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 13 days ago

Big thinkers are further removed from reality than most people

This is somewhat a abstract thought, it’s my brain can’t helpt it 🙄

A lot of times I wonder, am I really living in the real world or in my mind? And then I ask define “real world”

One of the most fundamental questions is not what reality is, but whether we ever directly experience that reality. And the most interesting question is: do deep thinkers experience reality less than others?

When you overthink or constantly live in your thoughts, you often hear the advice: “Get out of your head and go back into the world.” That sounds simple,

but it touches on a much deeper question:

At first glance, the answer seems obvious. You look at a tree and you see a tree. You hear a bird and you hear a bird. It feels like you are in direct contact with the world around you.
But that is probably not what is happening. Light reflects off the tree, reaches your eyes, and is converted into electrical signals. Those signals travel through your nervous system and are processed by your brain. What you ultimately experience is not the tree itself, but an internal model your brain has constructed of that tree.
So you are always already one step removed from reality. This becomes even clearer when you look at people who think a lot. Two individuals can sit next to each other on a bench. One notices the wind, the temperature, the sounds of the environment. The other is trapped in memories, future scenarios, worries, or philosophical questions. Their bodies are in the same place, but their attention lives in entirely different worlds.
Perhaps that is one of the strangest properties of the human mind. We can detach from the present moment and live in events that no longer exist or do not yet exist. We relive conversations from the past. We conduct discussions that never took place. We suffer from scenarios that may never become real.

As a result, a peculiar situation emerges. We do not only experience a model of the external world, but continuously build a second reality on top of it made of thoughts, interpretations, and predictions. For some people, that mental reality eventually feels more real than the physical world itself.

And then it becomes even stranger. Even physics suggests that reality is less like what we intuitively perceive than we assume. What we see as solid objects — trees, stones, tables, and our own bodies — are not, at a fundamental level, hard things. According to modern quantum field theory, the world ultimately consists of underlying quantum fields and interactions. The solid world we experience does not really exist in the way it appears. In other words, even the physical world does not resemble the world our senses present to us. Perhaps humans therefore live more among models than among things.

A model of reality. A model of the self. A model of the past. A model of the future. And the more intelligent and self-aware someone becomes, the greater the risk that they spend increasing amounts of time inside those models.
That does not mean thinking is wrong. Thinking has made science, philosophy, art, and civilization possible. But it does create a paradox: the more we think about reality, the further we sometimes move away from direct experience of it. Perhaps “getting out of your head” is therefore not only psychological advice. Perhaps it is an attempt to return to the only part of the reality we seem to have direct access to: this moment, this experience, here and now.
Because if both physics and neuroscience point to anything, it is perhaps this: we never see the world as it truly is. We see a version that our brain constructs for us. And a large part of our lives is then spent inside the stories we tell about that version.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 14 days ago

Would people still work if money was extinct?

I have a thought and an argument

What if the world evolves to a world without money? The the whole drive of people persue wealth would disappear. People’s drive to work 60-80h a week is all based on greed, not much people do it only for intellectual advancement or for the advancement of human kind.

Would we all become lazy, if standards would be the same for everyone?

And who would be the garbage men and who would be the CEO that works 80h a week?

Would this be ever possible… human society without money?

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 14 days ago

Why Big Thinkers Are Further Removed From Reality Than Most People

A lot of times I wonder, am I really living in the real world or in my mind? And then I ask define “real world”

One of the most fundamental questions is not what reality is, but whether we ever directly experience that reality. And the most interesting question is: do deep thinkers experience reality less than others?

When you overthink or constantly live in your thoughts, you often hear the advice: “Get out of your head and go back into the world.” That sounds simple,

but it touches on a much deeper question:

At first glance, the answer seems obvious. You look at a tree and you see a tree. You hear a bird and you hear a bird. It feels like you are in direct contact with the world around you.
But that is probably not what is happening. Light reflects off the tree, reaches your eyes, and is converted into electrical signals. Those signals travel through your nervous system and are processed by your brain. What you ultimately experience is not the tree itself, but an internal model your brain has constructed of that tree.
So you are always already one step removed from reality. This becomes even clearer when you look at people who think a lot. Two individuals can sit next to each other on a bench. One notices the wind, the temperature, the sounds of the environment. The other is trapped in memories, future scenarios, worries, or philosophical questions. Their bodies are in the same place, but their attention lives in entirely different worlds.
Perhaps that is one of the strangest properties of the human mind. We can detach from the present moment and live in events that no longer exist or do not yet exist. We relive conversations from the past. We conduct discussions that never took place. We suffer from scenarios that may never become real.

As a result, a peculiar situation emerges. We do not only experience a model of the external world, but continuously build a second reality on top of it made of thoughts, interpretations, and predictions. For some people, that mental reality eventually feels more real than the physical world itself.

And then it becomes even stranger. Even physics suggests that reality is less like what we intuitively perceive than we assume. What we see as solid objects — trees, stones, tables, and our own bodies — are not, at a fundamental level, hard things. According to modern quantum field theory, the world ultimately consists of underlying quantum fields and interactions. The solid world we experience does not really exist in the way it appears. In other words, even the physical world does not resemble the world our senses present to us. Perhaps humans therefore live more among models than among things.

A model of reality. A model of the self. A model of the past. A model of the future. And the more intelligent and self-aware someone becomes, the greater the risk that they spend increasing amounts of time inside those models.
That does not mean thinking is wrong. Thinking has made science, philosophy, art, and civilization possible. But it does create a paradox: the more we think about reality, the further we sometimes move away from direct experience of it. Perhaps “getting out of your head” is therefore not only psychological advice. Perhaps it is an attempt to return to the only part of the reality we seem to have direct access to: this moment, this experience, here and now.
Because if both physics and neuroscience point to anything, it is perhaps this: we never see the world as it truly is. We see a version that our brain constructs for us. And a large part of our lives is then spent inside the stories we tell about that version.

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 14 days ago
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Deep thinkers have more risk of isolation or depression

I find myself doing this all the time.

Is deep thinking almost like a shift in “mode” that gradually becomes irreversible and unhealthy?
At first, it often starts as something useful. curiosity, pattern recognition, and a tendency to go beyond surface explanations. A person begins to notice inconsistencies in what people say versus what they do, or underlying structures in social groups, work, or personal decisions. There is a sense of clarity in that phase, like “seeing behind the curtain” while others are still focused on the surface.
over time this same ability stops being optional. The mind no longer switches off. Instead of only analysing when it is useful, it starts doing it automatically, even in situations that used to be simple or emotionally direct. Conversations are no longer just conversations; they become layered with interpretation, prediction, and evaluation.
This is where rumination starts to replace insight. Instead of using thought to reach conclusions, thought becomes circular. A past interaction gets replayed repeatedly, not to solve anything, but to extract more and more angles from it—what was meant, what could have been said differently, how it might be perceived. The issue is that each new layer doesn’t resolve the discomfort; it often deepens it.

from “experiencing a life” to “observing oneself having a life.” That creates a split. One part of the mind is acting, while another part is constantly watching, judging, or predicting. Over time, this can make even neutral situations feel slightly tense, because nothing is just happening anymore—it is always being processed.
Socially, this can create a mismatch. While others are primarily engaged in the moment, the deep thinker may already be several steps ahead, anticipating outcomes or mapping hidden structures in the interaction. That can make everyday exchanges feel slow, repetitive, or emotionally thin. Not because they objectively are, but because they are being processed on a different cognitive layer.

A compliment is no longer just received it is analysed for intent and context. That awareness doesn’t disappear, and it subtly erodes spontaneity.
The result,, is not necessarily clinical depression, but a chronic drain: mental fatigue, emotional flattening, and a sense of distance. Not because the world becomes worse, but because it becomes continuously interpreted instead of directly experienced.

After events, small interactions are often replayed and overanalysed, even when nothing significant happened. This turns neutral experiences into ongoing mental loops.
Even simple things like humour or everyday tasks lose some spontaneity because the mind starts breaking them down instead of just living through them.
Once you start noticing hidden social patterns or lack of authenticity in behaviour, you cannot easily ignore it anymore. That awareness stays active and changes how interactions feel.
Over time, this constant analysis leads to a state where even quiet moments are filled with thoughts about the past, future, and self-evaluation, instead of actual mental rest

Isaac Newton spent long periods in isolation, deeply absorbed in abstract thinking. He is often described as socially withdrawn during his most productive years

Ludwig Wittgenstein was highly perfectionistic in his thinking and constantly revised his ideas. He struggled with everyday life and often withdrew socially.

Vincent van Gogh had an extremely intense inner experience of reality, combined with periods of depression and mental instability

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 6 days ago

Every memory we have is at least partially wrong “on purpose”

Almost every memory we have is partly inaccurate and partly a construction of the mind. Memory is not a perfect recording of past events. Instead, the brain reconstructs memories each time we recall them, combining real details with emotions, interpretations, expectations, and information acquired later. As a result, memories often preserve the general meaning of an experience better than its exact details. Even vivid and confidently held memories can contain errors, omissions, or distortions. Memory is therefore best understood as a reconstruction of the past rather than a precise replay of it.

This is not simply a flaw or accident. Many scientists believe memory evolved to be useful rather than perfectly accurate. A perfectly faithful recording of every experience would require enormous resources and would often be less valuable for survival. What matters most is extracting patterns, lessons, and predictions from past events. The brain therefore stores and reconstructs information in a way that helps us navigate the future rather than preserve an exact record of the past. In this sense, memory functions less like an archive and more like a simulation system, using fragments of past experiences to guide decisions, anticipate threats, and imagine possible futures. The imperfections of memory are therefore, at least in part, a consequence of a system optimized for adaptation, learning, and prediction rather than historical accuracy.

An example they tested

Two people can observe the same car accident and later give different accounts of what happened. Both may be sincere, yet their memories have been shaped by attention, expectations, emotions, and information acquired after the event.

You can even influence memories from others

If you ask 2 people to watch the same accident and ask the first how fast do you thing the cars were going? He may say 50miles/h but ask the same question like this. how fast did you think the cars were going when THEY WERE SMASHING together people will more like answer 80miles/h

Maybe that’s the reason we’re are able to forgive
not because you choose to forgive but you forgot or changed the worst details…

Or maybe that’s the reason we’re can love imperfect people

Or maybe it’s the most sophisticated cage ever build. A cage where you tell yourself about a person that doesn’t exist “yourself”. A cage so perfectly fitted for your mind you don’t want to leave it, even if someone opens the door…he

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 15 days ago

Every memory we have is at least partially wrong “on purpose”

Almost every memory we have is partly inaccurate and partly a construction of the mind. Memory is not a perfect recording of past events. Instead, the brain reconstructs memories each time we recall them, combining real details with emotions, interpretations, expectations, and information acquired later. As a result, memories often preserve the general meaning of an experience better than its exact details. Even vivid and confidently held memories can contain errors, omissions, or distortions. Memory is therefore best understood as a reconstruction of the past rather than a precise replay of it.

This is not simply a flaw or accident. Many scientists believe memory evolved to be useful rather than perfectly accurate. A perfectly faithful recording of every experience would require enormous resources and would often be less valuable for survival. What matters most is extracting patterns, lessons, and predictions from past events. The brain therefore stores and reconstructs information in a way that helps us navigate the future rather than preserve an exact record of the past. In this sense, memory functions less like an archive and more like a simulation system, using fragments of past experiences to guide decisions, anticipate threats, and imagine possible futures. The imperfections of memory are therefore, at least in part, a consequence of a system optimized for adaptation, learning, and prediction rather than historical accuracy.

An example they tested : Two people can observe the same car accident and later give different accounts of what happened. Both may be sincere, yet their memories have been shaped by attention, expectations, emotions, and information acquired after the event.

You can even influence memories in people

If you ask 2 people to watch the same accident and ask the first how fast do you thing the cars were going? He may say 50miles/h but ask the same question like this. how fast did you think the cars were going when THEY WERE SMASHING together people will more likely answer 80miles/h

Maybe that’s the reason we’re are able to forgive
not because you choose to forgive but you forgot or changed the worst details…

Or maybe that’s the reason we’re can love imperfect people

Or maybe it’s the most sophisticated cage ever build. A cage where you tell yourself about a person that doesn’t exist “yourself”. A cage so perfectly fitted for your mind you don’t want to leave it, even if someone opens the door…he

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 15 days ago
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Heavy feeling in my stomach

I have a lot of times a hunger feeling, but when I eat, after 1 h or so it feels like my stomach is not digesting and my stomach feels heavy/full even if m I haven’t eaten much.

I know this is relate to stress, tension “lack of sleep” and when I am able to relax “able to!!” Then my stomach starts to feel empty again and my hunger comes back, but when I eat again it start again. I don’t feel nauseous or anything, just this “I am too full” feeling… and this spoils somewhat my full day…

Someone else? And what do you do against it??

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 15 days ago

Are humans too intelligent for our own good? Humans are the only species capable of recognizing their own suffering

Are humans too intelligent for our own good? Humans are the only species capable of recognizing their own suffering, ruminating about it, and lying awake because of it. Animals also experience suffering, but they are so driven by survival that they are not consciously aware of their own suffering in the same reflective way. Humans, however, become split between their conscious experience of suffering and the biological drive to survive.
The core difference between humans and other animals is not just intelligence, but metacognition: the ability to observe one’s own mental states. Humans don’t only feel pain or stress—they can recognize that they are feeling it, assign meaning to it, anticipate its continuation, and construct narratives around it. This turns raw experience into something layered and self-referential.
On top of that sits the predictive nature of the brain. The brain is not a passive recorder of reality; it is a forecasting system. It constantly simulates possible futures, especially negative ones, because from an evolutionary standpoint, anticipating threat is more useful than predicting comfort. The consequence is that humans can suffer in advance of events that may never happen. Anxiety is, in a sense, simulated danger experienced as if it is real.
Meanwhile, the underlying biological systems remain primitive and direct. Stress responses, fight-or-flight mechanisms, hormonal cascades, and bodily signals operate automatically and without narrative. They respond to perceived threat in real time, not to abstract reflection.
The result is a kind of internal split. Not a literal division of the mind, but a functional mismatch between systems operating on different time scales and principles. One system reacts; another interprets. One pushes toward survival; another constructs meaning around that survival.
Animals also experience suffering, but in most cases it is more tightly bound to immediate context. Humans extend suffering across time through memory and imagination. This extension increases adaptive flexibility, but it also amplifies distress. The same cognitive machinery that allows long-term planning, morality, and self-awareness also enables rumination, existential worry, and chronic stress.

I love animals and they can get depressed or so, but we anticipate, reflect, over think it and lose sleep over it

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 17 days ago

Are humans the only species capable of recognizing their own suffering?

Are humans too intelligent for our own good? Humans are the only species capable of recognizing their own suffering, ruminating about it, and lying awake because of it. Animals also experience suffering, but they are so driven by survival that they are not consciously aware of their own suffering in the same reflective way. Humans, however, become split between their conscious experience of suffering and the biological drive to survive.
The core difference between humans and other animals is not just intelligence, but metacognition: the ability to observe one’s own mental states. Humans don’t only feel pain or stress—they can recognize that they are feeling it, assign meaning to it, anticipate its continuation, and construct narratives around it. This turns raw experience into something layered and self-referential.
On top of that sits the predictive nature of the brain. The brain is not a passive recorder of reality; it is a forecasting system. It constantly simulates possible futures, especially negative ones, because from an evolutionary standpoint, anticipating threat is more useful than predicting comfort. The consequence is that humans can suffer in advance of events that may never happen. Anxiety is, in a sense, simulated danger experienced as if it is real.
Meanwhile, the underlying biological systems remain primitive and direct. Stress responses, fight-or-flight mechanisms, hormonal cascades, and bodily signals operate automatically and without narrative. They respond to perceived threat in real time, not to abstract reflection.
The result is a kind of internal split. Not a literal division of the mind, but a functional mismatch between systems operating on different time scales and principles. One system reacts; another interprets. One pushes toward survival; another constructs meaning around that survival.
Animals also experience suffering, but in most cases it is more tightly bound to immediate context. Humans extend suffering across time through memory and imagination. This extension increases adaptive flexibility, but it also amplifies distress. The same cognitive machinery that allows long-term planning, morality, and self-awareness also enables rumination, existential worry, and chronic stress.

I love animals and they can get depressed or so, but we anticipate, reflect, over think it and lose sleep over it

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u/Beginning-Map-3264 — 17 days ago