Is it okay if my bf(30M) is ghosting me (21F)after i ghosted him ? I need your advice
I didn’t ghost him for no reason i was going through a hard time (feeling depressed) because of my dad talking about our relationship and telling me that what im doing with him is not what he imagined his daughter will be doing but this is not the problem because my dad wants me to have something official with that guy and im still young to be in an official relationship the problem is that i declared it to my bf i said im feeling like i won’t be responding these days i have things im going through please don’t get mad at me i will be responding but not like before i can’t just play it cool like nothing is happening after i didn’t respond and even when i reply he will be sleeping or smtg yesterday he called 2 times i was trying to stay away from my phone so i didn’t pick i told him why i missed his calls he said can we do a call or u don’t want to i was like sure waiting for him to call (it was a bit late he wakes up late so his day just started while my day ended) i waited for 45min then i was like if somebody cares and knows that your depressed he will call right away i was feeling a little sleepy i told him seems like you’re not here ill go sleep now i waited for couple of minutes hoping he will respond he did after i slept then i woke up in the middle of the where he is up working i texted him ( sorry i slept i might go for a hike because nothing is helping with my bad mood) he didn’t respond and i know he was awake i waited a little bit then i deleted the message now it’s the morning and no text back
What i find bad is that giving me the same attitude back for no reason is not what someone who’s in love would do he will try at least to get me out of it not put me back into it ( correct me if im wrong)