i have MS and even though I have mobility aids, my fatigue, pain, and speech issues make it hard for me to socialize. I'm overwhelmed and annoyed when I'm out of the house. i have trouble keeping up with conversations.
I'm so depressed. I wish my life was more fulfilling. i have no idea how to fix it
idk I just needed to vent
every once in a while, ill see a post by someone complaining that their partner only has sex "once a week" or "every other week". my ex used to complain when it had been a month since. it confuses me because TO ME that's not a long time to wait. once a week sounds regular.
do people for real expect to have sex multiple times a week forever? (that's rhetorical). that sounds like a chore
weve been together for 3 years. i knew this when i met him. i was comfortable with it when i met him. he showers before bed, but night sweats are just a different beast. if we do laundry, the bed stops smelling clean after 1 night and i hadnt really considered that to be a tradeoff. i just really miss a clean-smelling bed
what can realistically be done in this situation? he takes ssris, so its not really like it can just stop. we have extra sheets, but it feels like a lot of extra laundry
TL;DR i dont want my bed to smell like sweat