I can’t believe my ex did this after 8 years
In January, my boyfriend broke up with me saying that he doesn’t have feelings for me anymore, after 8 years of being together. I still don’t know the exact trigger for this, but for the past few months, we have fought a lot and he started getting disrespectful to a point where I am telling him what hurt me and I was crying my eyes out and he shouted at me so badly because I wasted his break time and he had to go back to work.
Stepping a bit behind, I found out he was being overly close to a girl which I never knew about as we were in long distance. Found out a lot of shit that happened. Had arguments. He said one try, I did give it a chance. After giving him all my heart, I found out that there is another girl who lives in the same house as his, along with other people had become very close to him. I am in his life for 8-9 years and this guy lied to me again. After knowing what it would do to me, he still lied and cheated now apparently is moving in together with this girl to live alone with her.
His mom supported him to break this off and later I found out that she even met her when she visited him. And somehow I keep feeling that he has become this evil man for whatever reasons but deep down he isn’t that. Maybe he still has some good in him and I miss him.
Oh and to add to it, the girl he was lying to me about has been treated like a live in girlfriend for god knows how long and I was made to beg and cry for him to speak to me about his own day. That girl told me “you are an ex partner, you can go if you want. I am going nowhere” in front of him and you know what he did? Shouted at me for the one last time for trying to spoil his image 🙂
Feel like dying at this point tbh.