u/Beneficial-Answer808

This is the hardest relationship I’ve ever had to heal from

My (32M) most recent breakup with my ex (24F) is hitting me so hard man. She blocked me on every social and number I can get my hands on. Just recently I hopped on Reddit and saw a girl frantically posting. I recognized the pain she was going through immediately so I reached out and it turned out to be my ex.

She had moved pretty quickly after we broke up and I don’t blame her I messed up and I couldn’t fix it this time around. So she had been seeing someone and the guy ended it out of nowhere for whatever reasons he had and my ex had fallen hard for this guy. When she realized it was me who was replying she gave me her discord but I was having technical difficulties so we just talked through Reddit. I did my best to be supportive understanding and calm while tears were pouring out me soaking my shirt.

She still has me blocked and that’s the time I spoke to her. I’m still healing from the loss and I was glad to see that she moved on. She doesn’t to go through any pain anymore life has been so hard on I just wish I could speak to her on good terms yk?

She’s a really amazing person with some issues but we have issues. I won’t ever forget the love we shared and I wish her nothing but the best. I be lying if I said I’m doing good. I hurt everyday knowing that each day that passes we grow further and further apart. I lost a great woman. I’m not sure how to deal with this anymore. I have to though what else am I supposed to do….its becoming to much to bare. . How am I supposed to heal from this…Tl:dr

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u/Beneficial-Answer808 — 4 hours ago

It’s really becoming unbearable

My (32M) most recent breakup with my ex (24F) is hitting me so hard man. She blocked me on every social and number I can get my hands on. Just recently I hopped on Reddit and saw a girl frantically posting. I recognized the pain she was going through immediately so I reached out and it turned out to be my ex. She had moved pretty quickly after we broke up and I don’t blame her I messed up and I couldn’t fix it this time around. So she had been seeing someone and the guy ended it out of nowhere for whatever reasons he had and my ex had fallen hard for this guy. When she realized it was me who was replying she gave me her discord but I was having technical difficulties so we just talked through Reddit. I did my best to be supportive understanding and calm while tears were pouring out me soaking my shirt. She still has me blocked and that’s the time I spoke to her. I’m still healing from the loss and I was glad to see that she moved on. She doesn’t to go through any pain anymore life has been so hard on I just wish I could speak to her on good terms yk? She’s a really amazing person with some issues but we have issues. I won’t ever forget the love we shared and I wish her nothing but the best. I be lying if I said I’m doing good. I hurt everyday knowing that each day that passes we grow further and further apart. I lost a great woman. I’m not sure how to deal with this anymore. I have to though what else am I supposed to do….its becoming to much to bare. . How am I supposed to heal from this…

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u/Beneficial-Answer808 — 4 hours ago
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The of dread and despair is taking its toll.

My (32M) most recent breakup with my ex (24F) is hitting me so hard man. She blocked me on every social and number I can get my hands on. Just recently I hopped on Reddit and saw a girl frantically posting. I recognized the pain she was going through immediately so I reached out and it turned out to be my ex. She had moved pretty quickly after we broke up and I don’t blame her I messed up and I couldn’t fix it this time around. So she had been seeing someone and the guy ended it out of nowhere for whatever reasons he had and my ex had fallen hard for this guy. When she realized it was me who was replying she gave me her discord but I was having technical difficulties so we just talked through Reddit. I did my best to be supportive understanding and calm while tears were pouring out me soaking my shirt. She still has me blocked and that’s the time I spoke to her. I’m still healing from the loss and I was glad to see that she moved on. She doesn’t to go through any pain anymore life has been so hard on I just wish I could speak to her on good terms yk? She’s a really amazing person with some issues but we have issues. I won’t ever forget the love we shared and I wish her nothing but the best. I be lying if I said I’m doing good. I hurt everyday knowing that each day that passes we grow further and further apart. I lost a great woman. I’m not sure how to deal with this anymore. I have to though what else am I supposed to do….its becoming to much to bare. . How am I supposed to heal from this…

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u/Beneficial-Answer808 — 4 hours ago