
First sexual experience is what happened normal?
I recently had my first sexual experience, and honestly, I was really confused and shy because I didn’t know what to expect.
The experience was pretty different from what I imagined. The first time I reached orgasm was after around 15 minutes, and the second time it took more than 30 minutes. During the first time, the condom tore, and I ejaculated inside her, which obviously made me really worried afterward.
She was someone I met online, and the whole situation was very unexpected for me.
I’m wondering:
● Are those timing differences normal?
● Is it normal for the second time to take much longer?
● How common is it for a condom to tear?
● What should someone do immediately after ejaculating inside someone because of a torn condom?
● Has anyone else had a first experience that was completely different from what they expected?
● What do you wish you knew before your first time?
I’m mainly looking for honest experiences and advice because I’m still trying to understand what happened.