AITA? My friend is being angry at me for (from my perspective) 0 reason. Like, I can understand the anger, and I know I might be in the wrong, but I feel like he's overreacting.
Context: Me, 17M, am having a small get-together with my friends to go watch a movie for my birthday. I invited my friend, also 17M, to come along. He's notorious for flaking, and even after I confirmed, I asked him for permission to contact his mom and ask her, to make sure he cant flake again. He said what I interpreted as a yes, and now he's acting like me doing it was a friendship breaking thing.
He wanted me to ask my mom to ask his parents, despite the fact that we've just graduated, but not moved out yet. At first, he's joking with stuff like 'Im crine bro' and 'Son', but now he's just being harsh about it, saying that if anythign like this ever happens again, he'll stop talking to me, and that he's def not coming to the get-together.
FYI, I was not rude or harsh to his mom in any way. I said my 'please' and 'thank yous' except for one sentence, where I joked that she needs to "make sure he comes" because he's 'very good at flaking on me.'. He cites the first quote as me not saying "please" and that it sounds like a command. His mother was very nice, responding with smiling emojis, no problems, and reacting with laughing and thumbs up emojis.
I really dont wanna break this friendship, but now its getting me insecure about the relationship as a whole, and I wanna know if he's actually being unreasonable before confronting him about it.
Please help.