Looking to get a jet ski but dont want to get a truck just now. Would I be able to tow most jetskis on a VW Tiguan that has a towing capacity of 2200lbs? Do you all recommend it? what weight are we looking at on most skis and trailers?
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2 month old relationship with a gorgeous girl got ended by her over something I said.
Essentially after going MIA for a week she replied saying she doesn't feel we are compatible cause i dont want to get married and according to her we are different. She says we have great chemistry though so im super confused but weren't given the chance to talk.
Everything was going well, we were going out, we were already saying i love u to each other. We were speaking or msging every morning and evening. It was the honeymoon phase according to her.
I believe it all started while watching White Lotus in bed and she asked me if I ever cheated. I said I did and explained that it was towards the end of a relationship. We were already jaded of each other type of thing. She didn't make a big deal about it.
Then another time she asked me if I believed people could get married and be happy forever after. I replied no because I thought the question had been about the show we were watching.. which was Love island this time and its a lot of cheating going on. I complemented the answer with "not at their age" I think people can get married and be happy if they love each other and make the effort but usually not at the shows age. She said she agrees. I think my answer had been influenced by consuming some redpillish content lately. I want marriage myself.
Fast forward a few days, we were supposed to meet and she wasn't feeling good cause she had taken Mounjaro for the first time. So that first weekend we keep msging checking on each other still full of love for each other.
On my side I had high BP and a major headache on Sat and sun.. and on her side she was having dia with other symptoms of mounjaro. So not that many msgs and kinda silence on Monday too.
On Tuesday still silence and on Wed too. Her 14 year old son arrived on Tuesday from a month trip I knew she would be busy but still silence treatment was weird.
She finally writes saying that she reflected while being sick a d she doesnt think we are compatible because i dont want commitment and she thinks a comment i said about us buying a house together sounded very transactional. I never said lets buy a house but I said hey id love this one day.. here's some options close to us. She said it was too early to discuss that and how could I bring it up without even not wanting to get married.
She then brought up the fact that she thinks our lifestyles are different because she is a live for the day kind of girl and I watch every penny. We make about the same amount? She probably makes more. We have discussed a few things in the past about her buying world cup tickets (I never judged) but I think she has this passive aggressive thing where she thinks people judge her choices. She also spent 90k on a custom pink truck! Again no judgement but she when told me how much it was said a friend told her it was obnoxious. I said its ur money u make your own choices. Never judged her choice. In fact I loved driving the car to give her confidence I supported her.
I reply by then trying to speak and explaining I said those things in passing and absent minded while watching tv. Anyway at this point its done and I get into defensive mode alternating between writing her asking to speak and giving explanations to the items she brought up here and there. And how my replies were absent minded, myself I would like to get married, but I thought we were talking about the show.
Anyway a week is gone now and yes didn't give us the chance to speak, but sent me a final the following Wednesday.
Im annoyed on me for replying things in an absent minded way, thinking we were talking about the show and also being influenced by redpill bs. I belive in marriage.
But also annoyed with her for breaking up like this and not giving us a chance to talk.
Thing is she is pretty and hot and im sure the moment she goes back to the apps she finds someone quick. That is destroying me along the fact that she didn't give the relationship the chance to discuss.
Could Mounjaro have influenced her decision of not considering the fact that I had apologized and why I had answered that way.. in her mind, I didn't know what i want or what I am.
It sucks and I miss her so much. It was an intense 2 months that ended even more intense for me.
- Note: girls want to get married so never tell them how there's no need for it if both trust each other.. at least not this early in the relationship.
- Never watch red pill content. That influences your subconscious and u end up thinking things u dont even believe in yourself.
- Also dont have these important discussions in front of the tv while absent minded.
Comments are welcome. I know I messed up something real.
My BP has shot up one week after 1st shot. I took the 2nd shot too and yeah BP still high constantly. Doctor upped my BP dose (lisinopril) but it lowers it for a bit then goes up again.
The asthma and breathing through nose is great, no inflamation. Im thinking either not take the next ones and see what happens after 3 weeks without or take only half the shot.
Will msg the prescribing ENT tomorrow.