If you support Lindsay Clancy you are a terrible person.

It's not complicated. A woman killing her three kids is not something you can justify. For centuries women have had kids in much worse conditions and they didn't assassinate them. All the support surrounding this case is insanity and a clear proof of how our society never holds women accountable for their actions.

This is disgusting.

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 16 hours ago
▲ 2.3k r/Bumble

"Gay vibes" because I didn't try to touch her on the first date. She's also upset that I didn't ask for a second chance after she rejected me

u/Big_Design_1386 — 3 days ago

I (29M) have been dating for 1 month a woman (28F). We're both looking for a LTR. She said that I'm definitely relationship material, never hookup material... and this honestly felt awful to me. How would you understand such statement?

Deep down I believe she meant this as some kind of compliment, but to me it signals a lack of attraction. That she's with me DESPITE my looks. Trying to process this and thinking about ending it.

Asking her what she actually meant won't help as she could just lie. Am I overreacting?

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 22 days ago
▲ 200 r/Bumble

Please, allow filtering for cis/trans people

This would be benefitial for both trans folks who would be certain everyone in their stack is open to dating trans people and also cis folks who are only interested in dating cis people.

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 23 days ago
▲ 175 r/Bumble

Do women on these apps actually like men?

When using the app you see all these negative prompts about men, and then you check these subs and every second post a woman makes is complaining about how they are "dying of thirst in a swamp" because there's not a single decent men available in the apps, apparently all are as toxic and disposable as swamp water.

If they hate men that much why even bother at all?

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 23 days ago
▲ 268 r/Bumble

I was planning a second date with a woman who claimed to be looking for a LTR, just found out she hooked up with an acquaintance of mine couple days after our first date

Kind of a bummer. I know this is the norm, people are sleeping around until exclusivity is discussed, but it gave me the ick. The guy is an absolute douchebag.

About to send her a polite, vague message saying something along the lines of "I enjoyed our first date but believe it's better to end things here".

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 26 days ago
▲ 1.2k r/Bumble

She asked to reschedule the date because she was meeting with her fwb

Took the screenshot before unmatching and deleting my bumble account. This is it for me

u/Big_Design_1386 — 28 days ago

A woman rejected me for being “too nice” but says maybe in the future. What does that even mean?

So I’ve been seeing this woman for a little while and things honestly seemed to be going pretty well. Good conversations, good chemistry, regular dates, no obvious red flags. Then out of nowhere she tells me that I’m “too nice” and “too emotionally available” for where she currently is in life. According to her, she’s in a phase where she wants more “intensity,” “excitement,” and “unpredictability.” Her words, not mine.

But then comes the part that completely fried my brain: she also said that I’m basically “the kind of guy she may want later in life” and that maybe in the future our paths could cross again when she’s in a different place mentally. Have any of you dealt with this? And did “maybe later” ever actually mean anything real, or is it just a softer way of rejecting someone without fully closing the door?

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u/Big_Design_1386 — 3 months ago