I'm super tired lol. I also can't wait to get back on minoxodil as my facial hair was coming in so well..though here I am post shave baby face heh. Never thought this day would come but here I am! 33 and tired but finally feel right in my body.
Title says it all really. I got a notification to say I got banned for “spam” on scruff. The thing is, I’ve hardly been on it recently and I don’t go looking for people on it, I message those that message me first (that’s just my thing).
I contacted support who then told me it’s because someone reported me for impersonation. Definitely feels targeted because I’m trans. I had the trans flag in my name the last few weeks- but only because people were not reading the bio.
Scruff have said they restored my profile but it’s not been restored as it’s still showing I’m banned haha. As if the dating scene wasn’t bad enough- though to be honest I’m taking this as a sign to delete my account and just come away from online dating anyways.
Has anyone else had happen?
So I normally identify as demisexual.
I need the connection before anything intimate- which is fine. But a lot of that has come from past trauma which I’ve worked through over the years.
I’ve read that quite a few guys on here and other groups I’m in have met actual partners from Scruff and Grindr.
I know it’s predominantly used for hookups, and a part of me kind of wants to explore that a little bit, but I’ve never had one before and I guess I’m looking for advice!
Especially because I’m not doing it for just casual sex?
I’m a natural over-thinker, has anyone else been in this boat and if so how did you navigate it? Would also be cool to know if anyone has met their partner as well through these apps :)
Thanks!