New to this sub and reddit! Been commenting here and there so i thought it's only fair if the person giving advice also shows off their own looks/coords!
I'm mainly into jirai, ryousangata, subcul, old school and gothic egl & everything with magical girl or succubus vibes~
(First pic shows a coord from a horrible brand! Uninformed purchase from my side, so excuse me not sharing details)
I'm very new to tamagotchi since i got my first tama (gen2) only a few days ago but i am so happy!
I actually love the simple gameplay and how dumb my little guy looks^^
He is 5, looks like a mean lemon so far and we called him Ebb. I'm so in love and i definitely take the "pet" in virtual pet too seriously... cus i did order him a little chair to sit in at night lol. I even started wearing him as a necklace most of the day!
I'm definitely planning to get more tamas in the future! Next one might be the paradise one? I'm also interested in the Uni, connection, angel and two nano ones. Really looking forward to share more on this sub since i don't know anyone irl who likes or has tamas themselves!
Me (26f) and my bf (28m) have been together for almost 2 years now. The sex life is good, but hasn't been great. We've spiced up here and there and its going in the right direction. I've opened up about a couple of my kinks and we've tried them out with success, so I really wanted to push him about his. I am pansexual and my previous relationship was with a woman. In that relationship I would typically be the top and in general the more dominant. We talked about this a bit the other night and he made a comment about how I would have loved in college. Of course I love him now but in the context of the convo I pressed him. He admitted to me that in college he experimented with gender roles and his sexuality, specifically crossdressing. I got so excited and already started planning our girls night but he pushed back. He said hes a different person now and grew out of the phase in his life. I started asking him more questions and what the biggest fantasy he had at that time. It went a lot deeper than just crossdressing and was more like femdom, which I was really interested in trying with him.
I pushed him for a about a week before he agreed to experiment with me. I got so excited and wanted to make it the best experience for him so I ordered a bunch of stuff for him like clothes, lingerie, shoes in his size, wig, kinky items like restraints, plug, strap-on, chastity cage, etc. We both agreed that if we were going to do it we had to do it right so I had him remove all his body hair, plucked his brows, did his nails, everything.
Once I finished his makeup and got his wig on and dressed it was pretty shocking. He looked so pretty!! Like actually very hot it felt like a completely different person. We just started with drinking wine and chatting. I still couldn't believe this was the man I loved, hearing his voice come out of a pretty woman's mouth was jarring. I told him to try and feminize his voice a bit, acting like it was kinky, but in reality I was getting a little uncomfortable. His slight voice change actually helped and we kept on with our girls night. I told him to put on some porn for us to watch. The video was interesting it was like a trance music video with different clips of crossdressers and trans girls having sex with men. I didn't mind however what caught me off guard was him making comments about the men and their bodies, how good it must feel, etc.
When it came time for sex I had him put on some fetish wear and model it for me. We also did a sub/domme dynamic where he had to earn release from a chastity cage. He was 100% submissive and wanted to be referred to by female pronouns. We did some light kink like humiliation and spanking before I pegged him. He seemed to enjoy himself a lot. I didn't mind it but it was still jarring seeing the man I love like this.
I made sure to do a lot of post care because I can tell this was an intense moment for him. He was happy and thankful that I allowed him to open up. At the time I felt sort of neutral, but leaning towards not wanting to incorporate it into our sex life. I didn't want to take the wind out of his sails immediately so I decided to wait a few days.
A few days later I popped into his apartment to drop something off before I went out of town for work and he had a full face of makeup and a stack of Amazon boxes. He greeted me completely normal and said he was trying on some new stuff he ordered. He begged me to stay so he could do a fashion show but I said I was just dropping by real quick. He then sorta tried to seduce me and show me he was wearing the chastity cage and anal plug I got him. I agreed to a "quickie" but it was just me using a toy on him.
When I got back from my work trip a few days later he picked me up and everything seemed normal. I told him to stay at my place that night. We went to bed and started getting intimate. I noticed his body was still hairless and his toenails were still painted. After we finished I asked him about it and he said that he might as well keep things that way. I was slightly confused until he started showing me pictures and videos he took of himself crossdressed from when I was out of town. He was super excited to show me the new outfits and makeup looks he tried. Again I didn't want to take the wind out of his sails and played along.
Things have been normal for the most part since then, but it seems like hes incorporating his kink into his everyday life now. Even though I was the one who pushed him to explore it again I feel like I've lost all attraction to him. I still love him and his feminine side, but it now it feels like the love I have for my platonic girlfriends. I tried to give it some time but I just can't some of the images out of my head. Its like I don't see him as the man I love anymore. I miss having that masculine energy complimenting me. I am going out of town again soon and I'm filled with anxiety about what he is going to do when I'm gone. Part of me just wants to end thins and tell him we can be "girl friends." I know its a big decision after two years but I don't see myself going back to how I felt before. I feel guilty because I'm the one who pushed him even after he said he had grown out of it.
So am I the asshole?