u/BiteEuphoric6653

i’m currently 17, almost 18, and i’m aware a lot of people will think “why would you even want surgery if you’re so young” i’ve lost a bit of weight, and i have excessive skin, specifically on my upper arms and upper legs that i want gone as soon as i can afford such surgeries. i am not done with my weight loss journey yet though, i’m currently down 21.2kgs from 104.3kgs (my highest weight) and i have a goal to be anywhere from 65 - 70 kgs (i haven’t decided yet) but i know that i’ll still have loose skin since that’s at least over half of 50kgs lost and i already have some loose skin on my arms, i would just love to make the weight loss process maybe a bit faster by doing the surgeries as soon as i notice the loose skin getting unbearable, but i’d like to know if anyone in this subreddit can give me advice on whether to wait it out or not.

i’ve been trying to apply for jobs, and all i have under my belt is babysitting and working at a convenience store, even though my mom gave me the job. i’ve been applying for jobs on indeed and i stopped because i knew they wouldn’t be hiring and it got a bit annoying, and i just applied for another job for students, however, even though my resume and my cover letter were pretty good, i need a backup plan, i have a feeling i’ll get the job but i won’t say anything right now since it’s too early to tell and i genuinely really want to do something this summer, as i really want to afford my dance and vocal lessons on my own, and save up to move out, any recommendations as to where i can go?

i’ve just recently started dancing, specifically hip hop and i’m 17, i want to be an advanced or close to an advanced dancer by the time i’m 21, however, since i have marfan’s training myself to exhaustion probably isn’t the best way to go.

if there’s any people in this sub reddit who dance, how many hours do you do everyday, i’ve been dancing for around two weeks and i’d say i do an average of 2-3 hours a day most days, and some days (like yesterday) i only do up to 30 minutes, and i know it’s bad but i’m still on finding a consistent routine while wanting to improve, is my average good enough to improve with marfans or do i need to lower or raise it?

it’s my first time writing in this space, but i’ve been eager to get a few surgeries and fillers and whatnot and i’ve felt this way since i was assaulted when i was a teenager, i feel as though now i have to change my looks so that person who did what they did to me does not find me to be beautiful like they constantly used to call me as i was growing up with them, and i’m very set on this. this person who abused me was always very fond of my natural features, so i feel the only way for me to achieve real inner peace and to successfully move on from the trauma is if i look a bit different than i used to, nothing really major, other than a boob job, but honestly i do get scared that i might get into a really bad complication on the surgery table and though i’m only researching right now i would love to know what steps to take towards plastic surgery