My best friend (20F) didn’t show up for me when I (20F) needed her — how do I handle this?
I had no experience with guys, so my best friend set me up with a guy (23M) she barely knew. She said he was perfect for me and such a good guy. I went out with him a few times, but he treated me badly and made so many hurtful comments. Whenever I tried to leave, he would hurt himself so I could stay.
I booked a hotel room for a sleepover with my best friend. I told her I was scared he might show up, and she reassured it won’t happen. He did show up, and she wasn’t there. I begged her to come and get me away from him and she didn’t, even though she was a block away. Her excuse was that she had to finish her university work. He held me down whenever I tried to leave and did some stuff to me despite telling him to stop multiple times. She apologized later, but it made me question our friendship. I’m not sure how to move forward in our friendship after this.