u/BotGua

Whenever someone is not super nice to me, I assume it’s because they think I’m ugly.

Does anyone else jump to this conclusion?

I’ll even think this is the reason for many negative or even lukewarm interactions with my SO and best friends.

It can put me in a low mood for the rest of the day. It doesn’t matter whether the person is male or female, or whether I find THEM attractive.

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u/BotGua — 6 days ago
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Looking at simple data, like a bar chart or basic spreadsheet, FEELS good. It feels stimulating and relaxing at the same time. Sometimes when I’m bored or stressed at work, I’ll take a break to look at our latest social media metrics or revenue/expenses spreadsheets.

I haven’t heard anyone else describe a mental activity as feeling good like that. I wonder if it is an asd thing.

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u/BotGua — 18 days ago
▲ 9 r/Neurodivergent+1 crossposts

My parents are elderly and my mom has a neurological disease with symptoms that doctors haven’t been able to help with at all. Both my parents are pretty much absorbed with her condition and needs. Mentally, they’re all there but they can’t focus on anything or anyone else.

I recently found out my brother is sick and he’ll probably be fine in the long run but I’m stressed and worried about him.

And being without my family members to lean on for emotional support, even in the sense of just knowing they are there and I can interact with them any time, has reminded me how isolated I am from everyone else in the world. It’s not my fault nor the world’s. I just don’t feel comfortable and connected to people outside of my family on the level I need.

I’ve been with my SO for 16 years and I find some comfort with him, but it’s not the same or not enough. I don’t feel like his love is unconditional and maintaining the relationship can be draining.

I’m worried for what that means for me as I get older and my parents get even older. It wouldn’t be right to lean on my brother (when he’s better) and sister, who both have busy lives and children.

I don’t know how to be a full, normal adult emotionally and not reliant on a parental figure for comfort. There’s a piece of my personality (for lack of a better word) that hasn’t changed since I was a little kid. I’m going to be 43 soon.

Anyone else?

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u/BotGua — 19 days ago

She tweeted this after the deadline passed. What she wrote made it seem like she believed the letter of demand would now get to Hegseth. But I don’t see anything new, and I’m in all the UAP-related subs.

Anyone have NEW news?

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u/BotGua — 25 days ago