u/Both_Department_127

23F,

planning my first solo trip within Arunachal Pradesh. I'll be starting from ICR only and my total budget is 10k

Could anyone please suggest places to visit other than Ziro? I'd really appreciate recommendations for:

Budget-friendly destinations

A 3–5 day itinerary

Affordable stays and transport

Must-visit spots etc ....

I know my budget is quite limited, but that's all I have at the moment. Any suggestions or travel tips would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

Brothers and sisters Iam literally so frustrated in this point of life , I want to live and think like a normal person I know many of us are going through the same thing, having an existential crisis i want to erase and undo so many things from the past I just can't stop thinking about I wish I grew up healthy and without any trauma, iam just thinking about death and su*** i. Every minor inconvenience of life , i want to live a normal life free from anxiety, prolonged sadness and overthinking .... every thing feels so so so messed up in the head and funnier thing is that it is so absurd i will be contemplating su**** now but next second I want to live fully bcs I saw a good meme,

I want to live like normal people with everyday problems and be healthy free from all the trauma and toxicity from my past. Life feels so absurd

Genuine question for everyone How did you move from your first partner . I really and have to move on from my ex of 4-5 yrs The problem is that I am not able to move on , it is very hard for me the thing is maybe bcs it was my first relation and of quite decent yrs together. It's not like I miss him or still love him, what i know is iam still attached to him and still give a lot of fucks about his life which I shouldn't. So yeah the question is how to move on from your ex of four yrs more , who was your best friend and your first love .

1.Been unwell for last 6 days (on injection and medication )

2.On the edge of cutting off a very close friend ( seems like she need me only when she wants money from me)

3.not being selected to my dream university.

It is a emotional and physical roller coaster.

Mental health is already fucked up.

I hate this kind of phase. Hope to see brighter days soon .

Do I have any chances ? 😭🙏🏼😩 Been praying for last 2-3 months just to find 'not selected' please tell me is there any hope left ?? Atleast on 3 rd list

Did you ever lived far from home and fall ill and suddenly miss your mom and family goddamn it's happening to me right now iam ill as fuck and not able to sleep properly and also can't stop thinking about my mom🤍 blessed are those who live with thier family

What are required documents for physical verification if I get shortlisted and also ....i lost my class 10th marksheet but I have them xerox and the digilocker one ...will it be accepted??

I got 210 , by adding dp of 7 and x 3 iam getting 231 ...is there any chance for me to get in..

Hi guys .. any predictions for the ST category cutoff ? I'm stressing myself out over this. Also, how long does it usually take for the merit list to be released after the registration process ends...

Anyone studying in JNU or trying to get admission in JNU please DM me..

Hi folks please help me to find a decent part time job in or around yupia,nlg ,itanagar or lekhi 🤲🏼🙏🏼 will be grateful

Please suggest me something or anything so that i can cry, i feel like i've become to numb I want to cry but i just cant! Man !!! Help me

Does anyone know how much the cutoff of MA sociology is? I know paper was much easier than the last 2 yrs ...so I just want to know how much it can raise this year ?

So Apparently ,this Easter weekend, hosting a church speaker at our home has revealed something uncomfortable which I personally noticed as a Sociology student . What is called “hospitality” quickly turns into unpaid, gendered labor ...for example like -women cooking three meals a day for 10–15 people, for days.

Respecting a guest is one thing, but turning it into a hierarchy is another. The speaker is treated with exaggerated reverence, while women quietly absorb the workload. Even at the dining table, when seats fall short, it is women who are also the church elders who are expected to adjust, to sit aside, to eat later. Why is their dignity always the most flexible part?

What’s worse is the double burden placed on them. A sister from church, after performing a special number in the service, came straight to our house—not to rest, but to cook. Participation followed by obligation...

Even the pastor’s own daughter who also happened to be youth secretary ,missed church services because she was in the kitchen.....these are the small but hidden gendered division of labor

This isn’t about tradition—it’s about inequality dressed up as service. If service is a virtue, it should be shared. Otherwise, it’s just exploitation made respectable.

Another pattern I couldn’t ignore: if you are economically less privileged or don’t fit conventional beauty standards, there seems to be an unspoken expectation that you take on more undesirable. tasks..like cleaning or handling things others avoid ( murgi ka peth safa karna). It may sound minor, but these subtle hierarchies are very real.

This isn’t about tradition,it’s about inequality disguised as service. If service is truly a virtue, it should be shared. Otherwise, it risks becoming normalized exploitation.

I’ve previously studied and written about the double burden faced by female medical staff, which might be why I notice these patterns more closely now.

So the question is.....should we continue to ignore these everyday inequalities, or start examining them more critically for meaningful change?

Open to opinions, it will help me to understand things more. Thank you

and please don't mind my grammatical errors.