u/BowlingForSoup85

I will post this to both Christian and LGBTQ communities for both perspectives.

To begin: I will this preface by saying that I am Christian, and morally, I cannot support LGBTQ. It goes against my beliefs and I see it as a sin. That doesn't mean I'm hateful towards anyone who does; thats not Christian and they're God's kids, too (hate the sin, love the sinner kinda thing). So, although I can't agree with it, I can respect their choices.

Anyway, I saw this sign while walking with my friend. She is not Christian, and is apart of the LGBTQ community. She laughed at it initially and saw no issue, but I was offended by the sign. I found the wording vulgar, mocking, and reductionist. And to me, to exclude someone's opinion due to their faith just isn't right. I think it attacks the person rather than the argument - which isn't the right way to go about things.

I'm curious to see how others feel about it.

Advice is appreciated, too!

The other day, I posted to the r/amiugly sub, and I was told that I'm 2/10 and that I look like I don't take care of myself. And that was nice to have an honest perspective and to be told what I could do to better myself, but when I asked for advice on how to do better, I didn't really get much?? So it was recommended that I ask here instead.

I know my weight isn't appealing, unfortunately, I can't do anything about that currently: it's due to my medicine, not my lifestyle choices. I know thats a big one, but there were comments about my hair, my skin, my style, and makeup, too. Any advice on how to improve those? Thank you 😄

(I'll be deleting this soon, thats what the purple page is for)

Anyway, just looking for honesty. I know the weight thing is an issue, I'm working on it. Unfortunately, its not controlled by my lifestyle choices, its a result of medicine treating chronic disease. I work out as much as the doctors allow and eat very well. The hope is once I'm better and off my meds, it'll all fall off. But it seems I'm invisible to the male population and I just don't get it.

Tried to use a variety of pictures to give a clear picture but can clarify anything if needed. Advice appreciated!

I'm curious as to what people think of me, or what they'd guess about me based on my style. All answers welcome! What do you think i look like based off my space? Age assumptions? Job assumptions? Hobbies? Anything!