u/BoyMeetsMars

Ladies: why do we want to see more darkskin representation in media but then encourage dating out?

Make it make sense? If we’re tired of seeing biracials representing black women, and want to see more darkskin representation… then why are we encouraging interracial dating over dating black men?

I’m not against dating out but many are saying that dating nonblack men is better and is being encouraged as we can all see. But did we forget that the children that come from those unions are the same children that we complain about getting all the roles??

Hollywood sees the thirst and acts accordingly and you can’t blame them. Let’s say a majority start to date out and have kids there will be less and less darker women overtime.

If we think dating out is better, so why complain?

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u/BoyMeetsMars — 10 days ago

What yall think goes thru a young nikka mind when they mom disappear and then come back home with a BBL?

I saw a video of a young dude questioning his neighbor’s new BBL, so it got me wondering:

What do you think these young dudes be thinking when they moms spin back with a BBL? Has this happened to you? If so, how did you react? What did you think? Did it change the way you saw your mom?

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u/BoyMeetsMars — 10 days ago

I was never big on getting into relationships. When women would bring it up, I’d get a bit squirmish and straight up tell them I can’t do it, even if I felt she might’ve been a good partner deep down.

One of the reasons is because of the possibility of getting cheated on. Obviously.. you can only control yourself/ actions, people will do whatever they want, blah blah..

But real talk, how do yall deal with the possibility?

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u/BoyMeetsMars — 16 days ago