u/Brainrotteduser

Sorry if I used the wrong flair
Background information
I'm 17F and just started senior year I live in a tiny town with no other goths. I don’t really dress Goth at school simply because I don’t care enough about my appearance at school to put in the effort I mostly just do a casual mildly alternative look (i.e., jeans and a band t-shirt with some jewelry)
There’s this new guy at my school who is Goth also a senior - I've found out through others that he isn't dating anyone. I'm super interested in him but I have no idea how to talk to him. I know where his locker is. I pass him in the hall multiple times we have lunch at the same time. But we don't have any classes together.
I'm really shy and neurodivergent so I struggle getting out of my comfort zone. He has beautifully dyed hair it's like this perfect Ferrari red my only idea right now is to tell him that I think his hair dye job looks cool but I'm afraid the conversation won't go anywhere at all. My only other idea is to wait till he wears his shirt that says “I'm vulnerable if any goth girls want to take advantage of me” and come up to him and be like “hi I'm a goth girl,” but that feels too forward lmao.

Sorry if I used the wrong flair
Background information
I'm 17F and just started senior year I live in a tiny town with no other goths. I don’t really dress Goth at school simply because I don’t care enough about my appearance at school to put in the effort I mostly just do a casual mildly alternative look (i.e., jeans and a band t-shirt with some jewelry)
There’s this new guy at my school who is Goth also a senior - I've found out through others that he isn't dating anyone. I'm super interested in him but I have no idea how to talk to him. I know where his locker is. I pass him in the hall multiple times we have lunch at the same time. But we don't have any classes together.
I'm really shy and neurodivergent so I struggle getting out of my comfort zone. He has beautifully dyed hair it's like this perfect Ferrari red my only idea right now is to tell him that I think his hair dye job looks cool but I'm afraid the conversation won't go anywhere at all. My only other idea is to wait till he wears his shirt that says “I'm vulnerable if any goth girls want to take advantage of me” and come up to him and be like “hi I'm a goth girl,” but that feels too forward lmao.

I wear a 32B from Victoria secret and a 36B from juicy couture. I have small boobs that barely even fit into the palm of my hands. Before today I had never measured my chest. I’ve been wearing a 32B since I got my first bra from Victoria secret at 13ish I think I didn’t get my boobs measured when I got my first vs bra my mom just guessed that I was a 32 B and it fit well enough. My boobs havnt gown at all, but my bras don’t fit well at all. it’ll be okay when I first put it on and look like it’s the perfect size, but if I do any sort of physical activity, the underwire will start to ride up and dig into my under boobs I can also constantly feel the underwire which is uncomfortable and the clasps at the back and straps are both uncomfortable even when I have them extremely loosened. push-up bras just don’t do much to make my boobs look nice or really push them up although I know that’s not important and is superficial but it bothers me.

I measured my chest today and put my measurements into a bra calculator and I’m just confused because I got told I was a 28D witch confuses me because my boobs are small - I expected to find out I had large A’s or something lmao. I’m just confused because Ds are supposed to be big and my boobs are tiny

Here are my measurements all in inches
Under bust
Loose 28
Snug 27
Tight 26 1/2

Bust
Loose 32
Snug 30
Leaning 32
Laying 31