u/Bravado123

Should I reduce my pension contribution to rebuild emergency fund and clear some personal debt?

Background: 37, male, single, no dependents, house with a mortgage.

My savings and (very small) S&S ISA were wiped out due to a combination private hospital medical bills for a parent overseas, car issues and unforeseen personal dental issues hitting at the same time (parent's medical bills last). Not expecting these to return except maybe another oversea's bill. I ended up with £6.5k approximately of personal debt after all of this. Don't regret taking it out.

I currently put in 14% to my SS pension, with my employer contributing 6% if I put in 8%. Pension pot is approximately £75k. Plus £1.5k a year in government DC pension. I'm behind on my target retirement pot of £45k (a recent target admittedly) in retirement.

I can save £600 a month on 3.5k take-home and I am debating reducing my pension contribution back to 8% so I can put that extra monthly money (£200) towards rebuilding the emergency fund and clearing the debt (£147 a month for 5 years). Looking at reducing my 'want' spending too to help rebuild. I could pay off the debt in about 15 months' time, after I've built up a couple months' worth of emergency fund and saved up again for known annual/ one-off outgoings later this year.

I am looking for 3rd party opinions on an approach to take here and would appreciate your thoughts. Should I drop my pension contribution?

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u/Bravado123 — 3 days ago

I've kept my eye on Victoria 3. It's on sale (£30) on Steam at the moment with:

Charters of Commerce mechanics pack

spheres of influence expansion

American buildings pack

Is it worth it?

Looking on this forum and it seems unplayable and fundamentally broken following the new expansion. Is it the new expansion that's broken the game or is it something else that I can basically avoid? Wondering now if I should just forget this game, if it is in this bad a state so many years after release.

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u/Bravado123 — 16 days ago

This is just a fun post. I don't have an issue.

My ACD's bond to certain individuals is definitely stronger than the one to me.

I've had my ACD since she was 9 weeks (now nearing 5 years old) and done everything with her including taking her to the office everyday for a year before we moved offices. She loves people and is super sweet. The thing that gets me is she has adopted a colleague as her human rather than me. She listens to them more (including more reliable recall), shows them more affection, and will follow them over me. That person is her human. She's like this to varying degrees with a few people over me - the one who plays, walks, feeds, trains, sleeps next to, take on adventures etc while rarely seeing them.

I don't mind it really and I am just a little jealous of those people and their connection to her. I am glad she's so sweet and devoted to people. If we go on hikes with random people (up to 40 people so far) she quickly adopts them into the pack and will patrol the entire group and check-in with each individual while barely acknowledging me, her owner. She might look to see where I am, but she doesn't check-in on me like the others haha.

I am 100% certain if someone dognapped her she'd be happy to go with them and be licking their face the entire way haha

Anyone else have an ACD like this?

u/Bravado123 — 17 days ago