Late 30s, no degree, finally have enough money to either pay for an undergrad or put deposit down and stop renting. Having trouble
I am single, currently earn £50k in a public sector job that I've worked at for a few years and has prospects, and I have £20k savings. My mum and aunt sold my deceased grandparent's house (London). My mum is sharing a significant chunk of her share of the money with me, enough to comfortably put a deposit down for somewhere in an area I've always wanted to live in. However, it also could pay for an undergrad degree (part time - it's not enough for me to quit my job and live off). I have no other debts.
My career is fine and my job is stable, but it has always bothered me that I don't have a degree and in my 15+ year career the lack of one has limited/influenced my life and choices. It is a priority of mine but also feels less practical than a house, especially seeing as I've had some success in my career without one - that said, a degree for me is not only about career but also about fulfilment. I am torn.
I've started searching properties, I understand well what I can afford etc., have an AIP in place and know that I'd comfortably afford the mortgage repayments + surrounding costs plus enough to keep an emergency fund and a fund for some upgrades. I'm keeping my mind open in terms of how much I'd like spare to put in some kind of index fund, but I've decided to cross that bridge when I know how much I truly have "left over".
I've been renting for a long time and I'm sick of where I live because it's far out and lacks amenities/connections to the point of gradually wearing away at my mental health, but my landlords are really solid and the rent is stable so I've stayed here all this while. I've outgrown the place but don't want to leave to rent somewhere in a better area - if I move, it'll be because I've bought somewhere. My thinking is that if I buy a property, I'll be in an area with better amenities and travel, and my mental and social wellbeing will improve hugely especially as I'll be closer to my current workplace, my loved ones, and central London. However if I get a degree, I'll also be massively fulfilled as education has always been important to me and it's a dream of mine, plus it'll boost my career options. I would also still have some money left over, but not quite enough to comfortably afford a deposit for a property + surrounding costs like conveyancer, wriggle room money for anything that comes up etc.
I am single so I am unable to plan with a partner in mind etc. and this is my one opportunity I think to afford something comfortably on my own. I've talked to people in my life and they're also not really sure what's best as they know me really well and know both are important to me. I don't even know if there's a way to do both, as I'm quite fixed on the area I want to live in especially for the reasons laid out.