How do you move on post 30s?
It feels that life is teaching me another lesson. I am going through a breakup where my bf left me to pursue his own ambitions. We could not find a middle ground to continue our relationship. I had dreams of setting up a home with him. He asks me what do you want, while he was wanting me to give away my stability of years. I spent this many years of relationship around him and lost people who i called friends. Everyone has got families. Unfortunately families dont even like to hang out with a single woman of 34 yrs old. I had to remove those friends as they hurted me and stopped inviting me after they got married and had family. I was never close to my own family and it feels to me for some of us, we are not bound to find love that stays. I am afraid that i will get bitter and become unlikeable. He is going to follow lifetime of opportunity (big dream), while i dont know what my dream is and what do i want from my life. TLDR: how do you move on in your 30s post breakup? How do you find your dream and ambition? Or rediscover yourself.