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I need advice

OK, so my husband has court next Tuesday for child support. They’re currently trying to make him pay 1300 because he only has 14% of parenting time. He filed for custody in March 2025 , and we didn’t get the court date until November 3 but upon the court day, I was having a health complications with my pregnancy so he missed the court date and then she had told the judge to only allow him to see the kids every other weekend so that brought him down to only 14% of parenting time. Before all this the beginning of 2025 we were picking up the kids from school and taking them home until their mom was done with work so after that, he will drop them back off to her, but then she ended up moving to with her new boyfriend and switched the kids school the following school year. My husband offered to continues to take them to school and pick them up but she refused saying she’s gonna do it but then that’s when we found out it’s her boyfriend and his mom responsible for picking them up and taking them back to school but some days they miss going to school because her boyfriend doesn’t wanna take them or he’s out of town for work. Upon from that, he asked if he can get them more time during the summer and she ignored the messages. He’s bought all their school clothes this year and every year before that and every time she asks him for money, he always sends it to her with no problem. originally we were just asking for increased overnight but now he’s asking for 50-50 because he’s only allowed to see them when she feels it’s OK and that’s literally every other weekend and we’re missing out so much of them and all this happened since last September but every year previous to that we were with them every single day and they are now 11 and 13. What are the odds advice ? I need real advice. Also we’ve been married for 1 year and together for 5 . We have a 7 month old baby together

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