To those who chose UP over their dream school, how are you doing now?
This isn’t the usual “dream program >>> dream school” post because I qualified to the same program in all the schools I applied to
I’ve researched the curriculum, opportunities, and sought advice from seniors so masasabi ko na I have discerned for long (maybe too long) and I am sure that UST is my dream school (good environment, lively events & organizations, friends will enroll there, curriculum suits my interests, etc.)
Nung una, I was hesitant in enrolling at UST because of the tuition fee but my parents assured me that I should go for it, maghanap lang sila ng paraan. Later on, I was ready to forfeit my slot na sa UPM but my family suddenly told me what if mag UP nalang ako dahil sustainable siya in the long run.
My siblings shared their side na nag-aalanganin sila na paaralin ako sa UST considering the living expenses in Manila (I’m from the province) and other miscellaneous expenses kaya nagmumukha siyang mahirap so nagdadalawan-isip magulang ko. They’re now radiating towards me enrolling in UPM para living expenses nalang poproblemahin nila.
I completely understand their situation and I shared to them na what if I qualify for the 50% sto tomas scholarship and sabi nila pag-isipan nila, pero since I’m from a private school, I need to take the qualifying exam and the exam proper will start around mid to late July pa tapos walang assurance na makukuha ko yung scholarship.
I’m not looking down on UPM’s educational landscape naman. I’m only concerned with the environment and how I may respond to stress in the long run since first time kong mag-aaral nang malayo mag-isa tapos demanding yung academics and wala masyadong recreational/nature-like spots sa UPM. Pero I’m trying to shift my mindset that the people around me will become my support system and make my college life bearable. I passed UPM for a reason and either way, I will still take the same program kahit UST or UPM.
To the students who also faced a similar situation sa akin back then, how are you doing now? May mga maibabahagi po ba kayong advice for an incoming freshie to make my college life more bearable? 🥹
Thank you so much po 🫶