Indian families and DIL equation is so imbalanced

I have seen highly educated and wealthy families and their daughter in laws, everyone has some issues with in laws. Either issue is with MIL, SIL or FIL, but rarely anyone is living peacefully under same roof like a family with no challenges.

I have completed 5 years of marriage and i gave my best to everyone, but i am still not treated as the core family.

As a society the basic harmony is so rare, not sure how can we overcome this.

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u/BrightLeg3178 — 8 hours ago

10 gram gold bar suggestion

I have never purchased gold online, this time I would like to buy gold bar.

Rate for 10 grams coin on each brand is different on amazon. Shouldn’t it be same?

Should I worry about authenticity?

Also is it right time to buy or should i wait?

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u/BrightLeg3178 — 1 day ago

Maternity leave 6 month+ 1 month for medical reason

In most of the MNC’s there is a policy to get 1 extra month mat leave benefit if you have had C section delivery and medically prescribed to rest.

Any mum here took that advantage? If yes what reason did you mention to your HR?

My 6 month leaves are getting over soon and i am not mentally and physically prepared to resume work.

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u/BrightLeg3178 — 8 days ago
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My 4 month old cries badly when we visit in laws

Hello mums, my LO cries unstoppable every-time we visit my in-laws house. We live in a same city and i have had issues with my in-laws from pregnancy and things went bad that we moved out.

Can babies this young can sense family tension amd vibrations? She is a very playful baby and mostly enjoys with everyone.

Her cry is so bad that we cant even stay there for 20 mins, that is unstoppable breathless cry. She is fine once we leave the place.

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u/BrightLeg3178 — 10 days ago