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▲ 0 r/bisexual

Worrying about breaking my girlfriend… lol

Idk if humor flair is quite right, but did any other sapphic bisexuals here start feeling huge in stature after dating a woman for the first time??

Lol hear me out. I know this is so ridiculous.

But for years I dated a man, and being in a WLW relationship for over a year now, sometimes I still haven’t gotten used to is that I feel gigantic in comparison to my partner.

She’s 4 inches shorter than me, so the height difference isn‘t super different. But my hands feel massive, especially when I hold her face. And I’m worried I’ll crush her when I sit on her lap.

I’m not actually “worried.“ I know shes a grown woman. I’m not trying to patronize her, so don’t come for me in the comments lol. I guess it’s just in the back of my head like ope maybe I’m hurting her 😅 - which I’m not; she has said so numerous times.

This is just goofy and I’m wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences dating women for the first time??

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u/Brilliant_Mango_1490 — 6 days ago
▲ 18 r/ColumbusOhio+1 crossposts

I’m looking for some new going out options.

Now that I’m in my late 20s, I’m realizing I don’t want to club alongside mostly college students.

I used to go to the Go Go, but I’ve noticed that the crowd there is younger than I thought.

Any suggestions on where friends and I can go out dancing and be in a little bit of an older crowd?

I’m sure there are older posts about this, but with how many businesses have been coming and going I figured I’d ask again.

TLDR - suggestions for bars with dancing that are better for late-20s/mid-30s?

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u/Brilliant_Mango_1490 — 18 days ago
▲ 3 r/plantclinic

I’ve had my neon Pothos for 4 days, and I have some questions.

  1. What‘s up with the yellow leaf?
  2. What are those small black dots? They don’t feel raised at all.

Context:

I’ve repotted her in a pot that’s probably a bit larger than the recommended size (photo attached).

I repotted her a couple times in the past two days, actually. Once when I first bought her (from plastic to terracotta), another time when I dropped her pot and it shattered :’), and another when I briefly removed her to amend what I learned was hydrophobic soil.

So, Oopsie, her first few days in my care have been a little rough.

Watering:

Now she‘s watered, her soil - to my understanding - is damp enough but not soaking wet. (I.e.: I don’t think dryness or root rot is a problem, but I don’t want to pull her out again and just stress her out some more if I don’t have to.)

Light:

I’ve got her in front of a west-facing window for now, while I’m out of town. But I’ll have her in an east-facing window when I get home in a few days. I’ve also got a grow light (idk what kind; I got it from a garage sale), about 10-12 inches above her. Because I have been reading that neon Pothos need a lot of light.

She has a couple new leaves (!!), so I don’t think I’m completely failing lol.

But I’m not sure if the two things I asked about are stress related from all the reporting or issues coming from the conditions I’m providing her.

TIA!!

u/Brilliant_Mango_1490 — 25 days ago
▲ 7 r/pothos

I’ve had my neon Pothos for 4 days, and I have some questions.

  1. What‘s up with the yellow leaf?

  2. What are those small black dots? They don’t feel raised at all.

Context:

I’ve repotted her in a pot that’s probably a bit larger than the recommended size (photo attached).

I repotted her a couple times in the past two days, actually. Once when I first bought her (from plastic to terracotta), another time when I dropped her pot and it shattered :’), and another when I briefly removed her to amend what I learned was hydrophobic soil.

So, Oopsie, her first few days in my care have been a little rough.

But now she‘s watered, her soil - to my understanding - is damp enough but not soaking wet. (I.e.: I don’t think dryness or root rot is a problem, but I don’t want to pull her out again and just stress her out some more if I don’t have to.)

I’ve got her in front of a west-facing window for now, while I’m out of town. But I’ll have her in an east-facing window when I get home in a few days. I’ve also got a grow light (idk what kind; I got it from a garage sale), about 10-12 inches above her. Because I have been reading that neon Pothos need a lot of light.

She has a couple new leaves (!!), so I don’t think I’m completely failing lol.

But I’m not sure if the two things I asked about are stress related from all the reporting or issues coming from the conditions I’m providing her.

TIA!!

u/Brilliant_Mango_1490 — 25 days ago