u/BritneyNoSpears_1

Why are y'all like this? 😭

One minute you're warm, funny, making eye contact, giving me hope. The next minute you're acting like we signed an NDA and we've never met before.

I'm not saying I'm sad...

...but if Spotify Wrapped included emotional damage, I'd be in the top 1%.

So tell me, do Capricorns secretly care and just hide it behind a brick wall, or do y'all simply wake up every morning and choose emotional confusion as a hobby?

Signed,

A very confused Taurus currently accepting thoughts, prayers, and Capricorn translations. 😂💀

Hey everybody! 😊

I'm 25, 7'2 on a good day (don't fact-check me 🤣), a fashion designer who's learning to code. I love anime, good music, binge-worthy shows, and I'm always down to try something new.

Whether it's checking out a new restaurant, exploring somewhere new, having a spontaneous night out, or just enjoying great conversation, I'm always up for a good time.

I'd also love to build a solid group of friends, so don't be shy if you're just looking for genuine, platonic connections too. If it turns into a relationship, great. If we end up being compatible as friends, that's just as awesome.

Ideally, I'm looking to connect with people around my age, roughly 24–29. Nothing personal, I just think we're more likely to be in similar stages of life.

If that sounds like your vibe, hit me up. Tell me something you've always wanted to try.

I started a new job a few months ago and somewhere along the way I developed a crush on one of my coworkers. The annoying part is that I wasn't even looking for one.

He's attractive, confident, funny, and somehow keeps getting even more attractive every week. Every time I think I'm over it, he does something small—cracks a joke, walks past me, or we end up talking—and I'm back to square one.

Nothing inappropriate has happened. We work together professionally and I keep things respectful because I know dating coworkers can get messy. Still, it's hard when you see someone almost every day.

Has anyone else had a coworker crush that eventually went away? Or did it actually turn into something?

Men, I need honest male perspective.

There’s this coworker I’ve had insane chemistry with since day one. Flirting, tension, lingering hugs, hand holding once, subtle touching, all that. He’s attentive, protective, masculine, respectful when I say no, and genuinely caring. I started catching feelings a little.

BUT recently he secretly took a photo of my camel toe while I was sitting down in leggings. He deleted it immediately when I asked and said he could tell I was uncomfortable, but he never actually apologized after.

My attraction dropped a bit after that because it crossed a boundary I didn’t expect him to cross. Still attracted to him though, unfortunately.

Question: was this just him getting too comfortable/flirty and being stupid, or is this a red flag about his character? Would a genuinely respectful man do something like that?