u/BrushFrequent1128

I was on marvelon for several years and I went off it for 2 years. I recently decided I wanted to go back on it because my mood was better when I was on the pill + I started getting acne non stop after.

Started 7 days ago and I feel nauseous CONSTANTLY! It’s making my mood and energy so low as well because I keep feeling like I’m going to throw up. I also have this weird taste in my mouth 😭

Anyone else feel like this and how long did it take to get better?

I have been taking the pill only after a meal but it doesn’t help.

I was sleeping with my door locked as usual and my dad unlocked the door and walked in with a group of aircon cleaning men. Imagine opening your eyes first thing in the morning and seeing 3 strange men in your bedroom?? 😭

I just can’t explain how violating this feels especially as someone who has an extreme need for privacy and doesn’t like surprises. I don’t even invite friends to my house!!!

I had a meltdown (also because I’ve been chronically sleep deprived because of my parents) and my mom told me I’m ungrateful and abusive.

I’m a girl and I was sleeping with my door locked as usual. my dad unlocked the door and walked in with a group of aircon cleaning men. Imagine opening your eyes first thing in the morning and seeing 3 strange men in your bedroom 😭
I felt like it was such a huge violation of boundaries. If he wanted to clean the aircon, he could’ve told me before, or at the bare minimum it literally takes 2 seconds to knock on the door and let me know there’s people about to come in.

I just can’t explain how violating this feels especially as someone who has an extreme need for privacy :/

And of course he doesn’t care at all about how this has affected me. Neither does my mother, the enabler. ‘He just cares about you and you should be grateful’ and telling me I’m abusive for saying I’m upset by why he’s done????

There’s been a few times in my life when a man I barely know has developed limerence and become obsessed with me.
They try extremely hard to interact with me even though I avoid them, and try to control and manipulate me in those few interactions. One also emotionally manipulated me to talk to him, feeling suicidal if I ignored him.
When they find out I’ve been talking to other men, they start lashing out.

The thing is, even years after I’ve cut contact with this type of man I have a visceral reaction whenever I think about it. I feel like I’ve been actually assaulted or violated. I was just wondering if others also have this strong of a reaction to experiences like this 😭

I’m not rude or mean but I can come across as difficult because I’m not so easy going and I have specific needs, and I ask a lot of questions.

I notice especially with customer service I feel I annoy them with how needy I can be. I don’t want to be like that but I just don’t feel comfortable going somewhere or purchasing a service/product until I know exactly what I’m getting 😭

For example
Going to the dental clinic:
- asking for the dentists name
- asking how long it will take
- asking how painful it will be
- asking for exact cost breakdown including hidden fees (I’m broke)
- after the service if there’s any pain I might contact them again to ask what to do

I feel a normal person simply books appointment —> gets service done —> all done