Singapore expat from India, when I see my friends own a car and house in USA, UK and European countries I feel jealous. The hard work, talent is same but different results. Here in Singapore it is rat race, salary goes for maintaining the lifestyle and in the end we have nothing for ourselves. Still the same public transportation and rental houses, life feels stagnant.
I wouldn’t say my husband is not supporting or speaking for me. Even if he speaks with his parents about my concerns they still repeat. They don’t have any respect or care for him. What extreme can we go? Not living with them but when there are functions and family gatherings I am losing my peace instead actually enjoying, which includes my fifth month baby shower.
Looking for psychologist recommendation. I am pregnant and anxious and my family doesn’t understand my mood swings and ends up in conflict. I know I am harsh with my family members especially my mom and husband but I am also going crazy. Argued with in laws too as they were making fuss over 5th month baby shower. I told if they are going to do as a formality and not out of love, then not do it. Every day is emotional warfare. I am jobless due to health complications (frequent vomiting and insomnia) which further makes me low. I wish none of this affects the baby. Speaking to counsellors will help I guess but don’t w where to go and google search is mostly about psychology classes