u/BudgetPipe267

Took some Viagra with Vodka before having sex…as soon as I finished my heart started going crazy, to the point that I went to the ER. Was told my heart was in Afib. Ended up staying in the ER for 36 hours and was released. My provider told me that if I continue drinking, I’m probably going to crash out. I have to now take blood thinners for the foreseeable future. Fuckin A. I was clean for over a year and just started drinking again in February. This is fuckin lame.

Two years ago my wife and I were arrested for DV. The federal government declined to prosecute either of us. Being in the military, I still received NJP which essentially ended my career. My wife has documented that she initially made up what she said to criminal investigations and has sent this statement as high as the Secretary of War’s office. Well, we got into an argument and she released the video of our incident on social media.

What are my options here in terms of suing her for defamation of character? I am still in the military and don’t retire for well over a year and the video isn’t very flattering on both our ends. It’s not going to hurt her career (she’s an accountant) but I’ve already been investigated and punished over this. I don’t need anymore crap in my life over it.

Please advise.

Had a very successful command referral program. Graduated in January. Here it is in May and feel like I need to go back of my own choice. What does that look like and is MEB or Chapter enforced here. The regulation doesn’t give enough data.

Probably the most insane three months of my life. I don’t know how I’m still functioning. I was just named Director of my position at work. People rely on me. I’m taking bottles of Gatorade to work with four shots of vodka loaded into it to every morning keep the shakes away. I’m still in the gym and doing well there.

I fucking HATE this shit.