u/Bulky_Bumblebee1428

Should I go on this trip just for my parents?

My parents are planning a vacation for this upcoming summer to France. They want me and my sister to go but told me I (23m) don’t have to if I don’t want to. I really do not want to go because:

  1. I find it exhausting being around my family (or even other people) 24/7, and find it so exhausting to be doing stuff 24/7. I also find it exhausting being outside all day. I don’t like travelling at all in general

  2. There are always small issues that arise between me and my dad which lead to the moods being down for parts of the trip

  3. Even when there aren’t issues that go to that extreme, I often am really irritated by things he does or says or the way he acts

My mom was saying that she wanted our family (including me) to go because she’s getting older and is unsure if, in the future, they would be able to handle the long walks/being able to do stuff all day regarding future vacations. Basically she’s saying she us wants to take advantage of her health now. This is literally the only reason that I would go, and I was set on not going until she said this.

Idk if I should go just for the fact that they are still healthy and able to go. I feel like the right answer is to go, but I already can feel myself just getting so burnt out if I go.

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u/Bulky_Bumblebee1428 — 1 day ago