Hi, I’m not here to ask about a specific chart. I’m just curious because I keep coming across this aspect in my relationships (the most reason being that my Venus squared his mars and his Venus squared my mars). Why is it so difficult, and does it mean anything if it keeps appearing in your love life? Maybe a lesson you must learn?
Hello. Long story short: I’m (19F) a fearful avoidant and ever since I hooked up with this guy (19M) about three weeks ago, I keep thinking about him. I have hooked up with other guys the same way before and haven’t cared much if at all but for some reason this guy left a mark. It was essentially a one night stand, and we talked very little after we did it so he didn’t give me anything for me to get attached to. Somehow though, here I am. Does anyone have advice to just make me forget or at least not care about this guy?
The houses are off since I don’t have his birth time, but I’m blue and he’s orange. We met on a cruise and hooked up within hours of meeting each other and it took me some time to “detach” from what happened, which is quite rare for me. In fact, I was attracted to and drawn to him from the second I saw him. This sort of thing happens to me very rarely if at all. Why is this the case?
I’m ruled by Venus so I naturally love love and it’s what got me hooked on astrology in the first place. However, I’ve put too much energy into using astrology for love and not enough into using it to get to know myself. I want to find random things about myself, like what the best way to manifest is for me or what’s something out of my comfort zone that might be a good environment for me or just anything anyone can see. I’d be eternally grateful!!
It’s been two years. We didn’t even date. I just need to get over him because somehow he STILL haunts me. To me, it feels like some force binds me to him and I can’t explain it. I also want to know how likely it is he thinks about me but I doubt it. I don’t want to share too much info just in case someone I know finds this but I’ll answer any questions if needed!
(I’m the blue and his houses are inaccurate because it used the default birth time of 12:00)