Why men are still called as providers?

We are in 21st century but still why only men are called as providers. Women also earn and sometimes manage both the work and households.

Now don’t say coz women would only marry a man who is working. It is called preference and many men have to marry a non working woman so she can take care of the family while a lot want a working partner.

So why are we still calling only them as providers especially in marriage?

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u/CarBetter2802 — 12 days ago

Is my friend at fault and should she go back to her ex?

My friend was in a 6 year relationship. Since her parents did not agree to her marrying her boyfriend, she asked him for some time so that she could initiate the conversation with her parents again.
During this time, her sister was also getting married, so she became busy with the wedding preparations. Meanwhile, her boyfriend’s parents were pressuring him to get married. They had already been putting pressure on him for about a year. After six months passed and my friend still had not initiated the conversation with her parents because she was busy with her sister’s wedding, his parents pressured him into getting engaged to another girl. During these 6 months, they continued talking and even stayed together for weeks. My friend believed that she had his support, especially because he never asked her about the situation or pressured her to take any action.
He told my friend that he no longer trusted her and that he would not go against his parents anymore because, according to him, his parents had agreed to his inter-caste marriage and had waited for 6 months and he cannot has to listen to them now. He also told her that the engagement could only be stopped if her parents spoke to his parents.
After her sister’s wedding was over, my friend spoke to her parents, which was after 6 months as mentioned but they still did not agree. She told her boyfriend that she was ready to go against her parents and do whatever she could personally to save their relationship, but that her parents’ decision was beyond her control.

A few months after his engagement, however, he came back to her and said that he was still willing to break off the engagement if she would have a conversation with him.
Now my friend is torn and doesn’t know what she should do.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 2 months ago

Would you go back to the guy who got engaged to someone else?

My friend was in a 6 year relationship. Since her parents did not agree to her marrying her boyfriend, she asked him for some time so that she could initiate the conversation with her parents again.
During this time, her sister was also getting married, so she became busy with the wedding preparations. Meanwhile, her boyfriend’s parents were pressuring him to get married. They had already been putting pressure on him for about a year. After six months passed and my friend still had not initiated the conversation with her parents because she was busy with her sister’s wedding, his parents pressured him into getting engaged to another girl. During these 6 months, they continued talking and even stayed together for weeks. My friend believed that she had his support, especially because he never asked her about the situation or pressured her to take any action.
He told my friend that he no longer trusted her and that he would not go against his parents anymore because, according to him, his parents had agreed to his inter-caste marriage and had waited for 6 months and he cannot has to listen to them now. He also told her that the engagement could only be stopped if her parents spoke to his parents.
After her sister’s wedding was over, my friend spoke to her parents, which was after 6 months as mentioned but they still did not agree. She told her boyfriend that she was ready to go against her parents and do whatever she could personally to save their relationship, but that her parents’ decision was beyond her control.

A few months after his engagement, however, he came back to her and said that he was still willing to break off the engagement if she would have a conversation with him.
Now my friend is torn and doesn’t know what she should do.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 2 months ago

Homa loan advice

I am thinking to take a home loan at approx 10lpa salary. Would it be a wise decision? I don't have any family responsibilities and want to invest in a property and have my own place.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 2 months ago

Keeping gifts and pictures of ex

Is it bad to keep or still use the gifts your ex gave to you when they left you and are now married to someone else? Also not deleting the pictures.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 2 months ago

Why does M29 wants appreciation for coming on time from me F28?

When i got job(from campus)i wanted to celebrate with my bf and planned the same 3 days earlier for a movie date but he partied so hard on Sat that when i reached the mall he was not there. When i reached the mall and called him he was half asleep and asked me for sometime and i was okay with it as i was supposed to meet another friend.

Then after an hour i called him again and asked about is whereabouts but he was still at home and asked for some more time as he had a bad hangover. I was still fine by it and started waiting. After 40 mins he suggested i should visit his place as he is too hangover. I told him i am not coming.

After another 40 mins i guess he came quite hungover and asked me that we should cancel the movie as he has headache and somehow managed to come to the mall by himself. I told him i am going for the movie whether he comes or not. We both went to watch it and i was silent the whole time and after.

This was not the first time that i waited for him. I had waited earlier as well for half an hour few times before.

Later when i went back to the campus and was sad about the day he uploaded the picture from the party.

Now all this happened a year ago and after that when i told him his behaviour he changed and started coming on time. But he wanted me to acknowledge the fact that he is arriving on time.

What are your thoughts on the incident and on me not appreciating his arriving on time now?

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u/CarBetter2802 — 3 months ago

Advice

When i got job(from campus)i wanted to celebrate with my bf and planned the same 3 days earlier for a movie date but he partied so hard on Sat that when i reached the mall he was not there. When i reached the mall and called him he was half asleep and asked me for sometime and i was okay with it as i was supposed to meet another friend.

Then after an hour i called him again and asked about is whereabouts but he was still at home and asked for some more time as he had a bad hangover. I was still fine by it and started waiting. After 40 mins he suggested i should visit his place as he is too hangover. I told him i am not coming.

After another 40 mins i guess he came quite hungover and asked me that we should cancel the movie as he has headache and somehow managed to come to the mall by himself. I told him i am going for the movie whether he comes or not. We both went to watch it and i was silent the whole time and after.

This was not the first time that i waited for him. I had waited earlier as well for half an hour few times before.

Later when i went back to the campus and was sad about the day he uploaded the picture from the party.

Now all this happened a year ago and after that when i told him his behaviour he changed and started coming on time. But he wanted me to acknowledge the fact that he is arriving on time.

What are your thoughts on the incident and on me not acknowledging his arriving on time now?

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u/CarBetter2802 — 3 months ago

Forehead pigmentation

Please suggest something for forehead pigmentation. I have been suffering from it from past 3 years. I have tried many serums but nothing helped.

Please recommend something. Also need to know if Eucerin is good or not for pigmentation.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 3 months ago

How to stop procrastination?

I know it might sound weird but i am unable to do anything. I even had an interview opportunity but couldn’t say yes to it coz i was not able to prepare for it and kept procrastinating. Can anyone suggest any remedy which help in reducing this laziness.

u/CarBetter2802 — 3 months ago

Any good skin clinic?

I am looking for some good skin clinic which offers treatments like carbon peel, chemical peel etc. Please share your experience.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 4 months ago

Is it true rhat Leo ascendent do not have a great or good marrued life? Any Leo asc plz share experience in marriage?

I understand the logic to some extent but want to know if it is really true.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 4 months ago

People with 7th lord in 7th house as Saturn. Please share your marriage experiences.

Please share your experiences with this placement in marriage.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 4 months ago

People with 7th lord in 7th house as Saturn. Please share your marriage experiences.

Please share your experiences with this placement in marriage.

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u/CarBetter2802 — 4 months ago