u/CardiologistMuch9712

Feeling left out in 3 person friend group

Idk if anyone relates, but I’m in a 3-person friend group where the other 2 were friends first. We all hang out together for group stuff, but I noticed they do a lot of one-on-one things without mentioning it in the group chat and I only find out through social media. Recently they went to see one of my favorite K-pop group, they usually get coffee together a lot (I know causes they post it), and sometimes travel out of state too, which sucks bc they know I love those things as well. I think what hurts more is I’d genuinely appreciate just being invited instead of opening social media and seeing them post abt it. Even when we hang out as a group (which is once every blue moon), it sometimes feels like I’m out of place bc the pics/posts are mostly just them together. It’s been making me overthink if they actually like me or if I’m just the “group activity” friend. I do notice that when we all hang out together, they never seem cliquey or make me feel left out in person, which is why I’m confused. I genuinely don’t know why they don’t include me in a lot of their other hangouts or post pics with me when we together.

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u/CardiologistMuch9712 — 3 days ago

Being ghosted by friends

Idk if this is a rant or a cry for help but my brother was supposed to go to a concert with me Friday and just bailed two days before so I have one extra ticket. now I’m texting different people and my group chats are dead silent and I have the biggest pit in my stomach over this for some reason. Do y’all ever feel like this when invite people to certain event? How do you deal with it? I know asking people last min on Friday plan is not ideal but I don’t even get a single no or any response at all since last night.

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u/CardiologistMuch9712 — 3 days ago