A friend told me na i look like someone that has high standards. "Parang ikaw andito sa taas, tapos andito lang kami sa baba" When i asked kung bakit parang nahihiya sila saakin even though we're friends. Is this smth i should reflect on?
Maraming irregular sa circle of friends ko, and one of my friends said "pick your irreg" And included a list of my irreg friends, without my name. Bigla niya rin naman dinedelete at inadd yung name ko. I jokingly replied "wow" "I saw that boi". And sabi niya "magtatampo k nnmn?". Tapos may another friend na nagreply sakanya "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH dami mo n kasalanan", and her response was "para aqng may jowa sa tutuu lang".
I know it all jokes, maliit lang na bagay at no meaning behind forgetting my name. Pero for some reason, that deeply disappointed me. Iniisip ko na tumigil na akong magchat sa gc namin, lowkey just disappear. OA ba ako for feeling this way?
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What's your take on it?
"Mahal na ang bigas Pati lata ng sardinas Kung mamahalin kita ngayon (Kita ngayon) Sabay tayong magugutom 'Di sapat ang sahod ko Kahit tapat ako sa 'yo Anong silbi nitong pagmamahal (Pagmamahal) Kung lahat din ay nagmamahal? Ayoko lang namang makita kang Kinikilig habang sa hirap ay nagdurusa"
Problem/goal:
I've been feeling uncomfortable with bf (ldr) because of fears/realizations. How do i/we overcome this?
Context:
Dati, i couldn't control my emotions. I couldn't forget and forgive easily kasi aware ako na yung mistakes niya, even if it was small, will happen again. We started to have a cycle in our relationship, where he'll break up with me and magbabalikan after some time. I admire na he's able to walk away pag alam niya na it doesn't serve him right anymore, and that.. I also envied. The break ups kept coming, but yeah, i was mostly to blame for my poor emotional management. It started to become something i fear sa relasyon namin. Where small arguments feels enough to make him break up with me. Our relationship feels so fragile, and it hurts to know na kaya niyang mag walk away anytime.
I started to have thoughts na baka it's so easy for him to walk away kasi he knows na I'll always be here, na i won't be going anywhere. Parang ang dali niya lang bitawan yung salita na yun, na para bang there's no chance na there will be no us anymore if one chooses to walk, kasi not all doors stay open. But at the same time, i started to value him more along with the realizations. I love him and i want it to be him so i should keep my sht together, and so i did. I started to change for the better, and i started to notice na he's loving me more, caring for me more and doing things that i don't have to ask for or remind.
I feel this deep discomfort to be aware that he can walk away, at natatakot ako na this time, I'll walk away too. Becoming better for him is also me becoming better for myself. Honestly, things are a bit rough rn kasi he has been throwing his negative emotions towards me due to stress sa ibang bagay. It's like nagbaliktad kami ng posisyon. My discomfort is increasing kasi he has been acting like a jerk to me
Open to criticism! I want us to be better. I want to make this work.
I'm in a relationship and na notice ko lang how different my bf is treating after deciding to be a "better" Gf. 2 years with him, ang dami naming naging problema na naging reasons for our breakups. Before, i admit na ang bigat kong dalhin bcs of my frequent complaints or confrontations. Hindi kasi ako madaling mag move on from mistakes or issues, lalo na if i know deep inside na it'll happen again or that he probably doesn't understand it like how i want him to understand. I became a big factor for his stress kasi sa frequent arguments namin. Recently, i realized na pati ako napapagod sa approach ko na ganun. I started to change my tone, approach and how i handle things. Hindi ko deserve mag beg for what i think i deserve, at hindi niya rin deserve mag suffer.
I realized how much he means to me, na i don't want to lose this man so i better keep my shit together. I noticed na he started to love me more, care for me more, do things i wanted him to do before without being asked or reminded. I'm just wondering, bakit mas mahal ka ng lalaki pag magaan kang dalhin?
I'm open to criticism, but pls be nice:)
Edit: both of us had our shortcomings.