u/ChampionshipSea7117

AMAB. Due to medical issues I no longer produce enough testosterone and am taking T. I also wear a bra to offset side effects and weight from medical devices inserted above my breast tissue. The medical device is not related to my gender issues. I am having trouble finding a bra with small cups in my band size. I would appreciate some suggestions on where to look for a bra that would better fit me. I live in Colorado, USA.

Although I don’t want SRS, I’m not opposed to losing my maleness down there. It would have to be medical necessity.

I’m a AMAB nonbinary, gender fluid person who uses both restrooms. When I’m wearing a dress I prefer using the ladies restroom because I am scared that someone man might beat me up. The worst that can happen in the ladies is that I get screamed at. However when in male mode I’ll use the man’s restroom.

The title says it all.

The title says it all.

When I was younger, I would fully cross dress (wig, makeup, no beard or visible body hair) I would always use the ladies room when gender neutral restrooms were not available. While cross dressed I preferred a female name and female pronouns. I was even asked to leave the man’s room on Halloween.

Recently , I have started wearing dresses in public again, with beard and body hair. I am wearing the dresses because they are cooler and more comfortable than shorts. Do to medical conditions I also wear a bra and Knix/Always Discreet panties. I have discovered that I feel unsafe and uncomfortable using the men’s room. Although I don’t feel as feminine as I did years ago, I also don’t feel like a man when I am out and about. The best way to describe me is gender fluid tipping the scales towards the feminine side. Is it wrong for me to use the ladies room?

I have never used the ladies locker room even though I have gone to the local pool wearing a dress and planed on changing into a woman’s one price swimsuit, I have always been fortunate enough to use a gender neutral changing room.