u/Character_Club_1507

I’m so tired of being in stem

Idk how you guys do. I’m tired of being in STEM. Like my boss always criticizes me. Never any appreciation. He literally says one thing earlier and then is like I never said it. I work way more than I should be. I spent over 10 hrs per day working (at and outside of work). I try so hard to meet my deadlines. I’m highly medicated for my bipolar and have been struggling a lot with my mental health. Idk I don’t even want to be in stem. A lot of times there’s a lot of micro aggressions for being a woman. I didn’t know calling out people in emails for not doing something is unprofessional. It’s my first big girl job out of college. Idk any advice would be nice. I can switch jobs but I feel like I don’t have skills for anything

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u/Character_Club_1507 — 23 hours ago

Hey guys! Ok so I work in the process engineering field and do a lot of python scripting. I talk to a lot of people at work and essentially would call it networking. It’s more like hey how’s it going to oh did you see xyz was implemented and also ask about what people do. One of the people I talk to frequently asked if I’m interested in a position in that department (which is software). So I’m interested in trying it out. The role comes with a 30% pay raise. Idk how the whole internal hiring works and I don’t want my manager to know about it. I feel like he’ll retaliate or something idk. Do you guys have any advice?

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u/Character_Club_1507 — 16 days ago

Heyo! I just got on lithium carbonate a week ago and next week will be tapering off of Lamotrogine. I just feel like all these chemical changes are making me react differently than I would when stable. It’s either excessive rage or too calm to care. I had a flat tire 2 days ago and I was calm. Today I had a convo with my boss and was triggered. I kinda blew up on him (also had a migraine at the same time). I had no way to leave and go away. Idk this scares me because I don’t want to get fired (especially in this economy). Idk what else to do to calm down. Do you guys have any similar experiences to me? Any advice would also be great. I’m tired of all the mood swings and unpredictability. I just want to be normal like everyone else

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u/Character_Club_1507 — 21 days ago

Hey guys! First time posting here. (Not if I picked the right tag) Context I’m planning to buy a new car. My current car has been expensive in terms of maintenance. I love my current car but the gas prices and maintenance costs are pissing me off. In the last 4 months alone, I spent $1000 for just maintenance

I’m debating between model 3 and Y. My husband has a model 3 and it’s pretty good. He bought it like a year ago and didn’t get any notifications about maintenance yet. I want to know how often you need maintenance for your car and any other advice is appreciated. Just like overall cost for like charging, maintenance, etc.

I like in California so ik the registration costs a lot

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u/Character_Club_1507 — 23 days ago