Why is it, once you reach your 30s, so hard to find a man with genuine intentions—someone who chooses to stay by your side? Instead, you often meet men with avoidance issues, men who only want a situationship, men already with partners but still lurking, and lastly, men just looking for a FUBU. Ano bang meron sa earth?
paRANT LANG ONE TIME BIGTIME!
Nakakainis! At first, you’re hesitant to talk to these boys/men—but when they show effort, you give in and match their effort. Then suddenly, they change their routine because they know we’re getting hooked. Once we’re attached, they disappear just like that! Since we’re emotionally invested, we seek answers—but we don’t get any. Here we are, down and feeling lost. Sheesh!
To all boys/men (and let’s include girls/women too, not to be selfish): if you know you’re not capable of committing, PLEASE don’t start a conversation or flirt.