AITA for being mad that my friend took my phone and texted someone without me knowing?
I'll try to keep this brief. Sorry no screenshots.
I (44m) went to my buddies (60m) house yesterday to hang some artwork, help him build a bookcase, get dinner and watch the baseball game. Cool. Fun times right?
Well the girl (37) I've been hanging out with constantly for the past 4-5 months was texting me and sending VMs like we always do on a daily basis. He hates her with a passion. Whatever, he knows my stance. He doesn't care.
When I was either hanging some of his art or building the bookcase, she texted me asking a question about the baseball game we are going to tomorrow. He grabbed my phone without me knowing and replied "no" to something I obviously would have said yes to. I didn't know he did that for almost an hour because I was busy doing stuff for him. When I saw it and called him out, he just laughed. I let it go that day because whatever.
But today I told him how that wasn't okay, and he just laughed and after a lot of back and forth he said "I'm sorry you feel that way".
Am I wrong for being pissed as fk about this? It has nothing to do with who he texted. It's the fact that he took my phone and texted someone without me knowing. He just doesn't get it and thinks I'm over reacting. I was mildly upset before, so I figured I'd bring it up to him man to man, and his responses are what sent me over the edge.
No, I don't have a pass code on my phone, because I have nothing to hide so there's no reason. I just never thought a good friend would ever do something like that. And when confronted, he just didn't seem to care at all. AITA here?